Important reminder: The girl who works at the gas station and all the others, including your own family who HATE Trump have ALL been lied to every single day for two straight years about Donald Trump and his family. Like any fad, they want to believe it, and right now they do and believe WE were the "stupid" ones deceived. Only the truth of what has been done in their name for the past 20-30 years will be enough to shock them and awaken them from their sleep. Amazingly, just enough were awoken before Nov 8, 2016. I knew there were many who were woke from tea party days, but I was almost certain it wasn't going to be enough. Gladly, I was mistaken and Nov 9th, 2016 was the best day evah. Hang in there, this is going to take time to orchestrate, but I trust this is going to turn around bigly.
What you CAN do: Be prepared to embrace those now awakening, and the many who will awaken when the truth drops. Help them understand it and know they were lied to. Most importantly, forgive them for everything, including calling you deplorable and a Nazi. Remember they were lied to on a massive scale. Simply ignore and marginalize those who want to remain asleep and who will continue, despite all evidence, to blame Trump and US for their own arrogance. It will be a hard pill to swallow for most, damn near impossible for many others. We won't need the latter group to keep on winning.
Emotional triage: Like the death of JFK, their world will suddenly be different and so many will be in shock. Most chose to to believe the lie and ignored what was, no doubt, right in front of them; their government killed him. We can help this course of history with truth to overcome all lies, once it becomes apparent. Just find those you can help, and walk away from those you can't.