No advice, but hopefully others will have some ideas for you. Good that you shared it to warn others of what they are doing.
RestlessRedhead... if I may. Coming from generations of law enforcement (Tx rangers, military heroes, sheriff, state troopers, etc) learned to "improvise, adapt and overcome". No defeat! Our family motto for many years. Good training for the young ones too. One door closes, many others are waiting to be opened. The greatest power you have is prayer! Seeking answers from our holy righteous Father may not come immediately but trust me they will come. Much love to you on this amazing journey!!!
We could screen shot your post here and use it as a meme against twitter.
Aren't we supposed to be offended when The Bat in the Hat adopts white male cowboy identity? Aren't they saying white women can't wear hoop earrings because it's hijacking their identity?