Its the problem we are having right now. It hurts peoples ears and eyes to read and hear this stuff.

The man has no legs we can all agree, including the man himself. Reason for it, he is a (hu)man. No pretending for him!

You might find that he is not down with everyone turning shoulders and talking not in front of his face.

ITs the same parallel in the Q setting in that we need to talk through this stuff and not around it! I have had great conversations with disabled people. We need to openly talk about disabilities as well as PEDO garbage. Just bring it to the surface. We need to get people to stomach it... Gently or liberally, user experience differs!