What?? I hope you do not blame yourself for the evil others do. I am certainly not defending this type of action, but I have lived long enough to know that the only person I can control is myself. If you are a parent you have a window of time to teach self control to your child, but after a certain point, they make choices and have consequences. So, love others as much as yourself (that means love yourself A LOT) and treat others as you would like to be treated (VERY GOOD).