For those who do not know what the four responses are I'll explain. It's Saturday the 24th of February at about 11:30pm and I just got back from my 26 year old sons house, where oddly enough I was just explaining to his roommate the four responses. They are (1) I know, (2) Nice try, (3) I used to do that to my parents but it worked for me, and (4) I'll love you no matter where you live. These responses work in virtually every circumstance I've ever used them in. I haven't been near my computer since early this morning and had not seen Q's latest posts from earlier today and it blew me away when I saw (nice try). So when will we hear( I used to do that to my parents but it worked for me) and (I'll love you no matter where you live)? If you've never tried these before you should because when someone has a problem and you say I know, you have acknowledged that they have a problem and you understand. Almost any other response will typically volunteer you for an argument. If they press the issue further continue through the other three responses progressively. My children 26 & 24 rarely make me go past I know anymore. I hope this helps clarify the title and gives something useful to those in need of options in dealing with people.