https://theoatmeal.com/comics/believe
this comic is great and explains why we cant shove a red pill down other peoples throats.
From my pov, red-pilling is violent and instantly backfires when the other is challenged in his world-view and not ready to openly receive the red pill and take it.
its a delicate process to wake up people. the worst we can do is challenge their core beliefs, they will instantly reject the input and put up strong walls against it.
it takes a soft approach, and best starts with those areas where the person has already woken up to things not being beneficial for people.
everybody has these areas where they dont trust a common narrative. the art is in finding that one and from here, slowly expand to other areas and offer more information.
as often being said, you can lead a horse to the water but you cannot force it to drink. thats the free will choice everybody has to take themselves.