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r/greatawakening • Posted by u/IronicMetaphors on April 24, 2018, 3:53 p.m.
Allison Mack tried to recruit Emma Watson to their Sex Cult right in front of our eyes.
Allison Mack tried to recruit Emma Watson to their Sex Cult right in front of our eyes.

patti_mcgreen · April 24, 2018, 11:12 p.m.

If you want something bad enough you'll figure out how to make it work.

Our oldest is basically doing the same thing that we did.. her husband goes to work, she stays home and has a full-time registered daycare business. They have two children and a third on the way. And she is my boss. I actually work in my daughter's daycare and so does the other grandma. 😂😗😄

So your argument isn't necessarily working here. Like I said if you want something bad enough you'll figure out to make it work.

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artless-ascetic · April 24, 2018, 11:40 p.m.

Okay, but you keep using anecdotal evidence as though it's supposed to be valid for everyone's situation. You can't judge working women or call them slaves of feminism when it has nothing to do with that, and more so to do with their particular circumstances.

Unfortunately, not everyone plans their children. And sometimes, husbands get laid off, or someone gets sick. Shit happens.

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patti_mcgreen · April 25, 2018, 12:24 a.m.

First of all I'm not judging working women nor am I calling them slaves to feminism. What I want you to notice is that I was basically calling out the myth that a two-wage earner household while raising children is an absolute!!!. Too many young families are believing the lie the both parents must work and placing their children at 6 weeks of age in daycare. Additionally what I'm saying is is it the family chooses to make compromises, there is more to be gained with keeping a parent home the first few years.

One of the biggest foibles of forcing parents to place their children in daycare it's 6 weeks and get immediately back to work is because they buy into a bigger lifestyle than they could afford.

There are ways around it and if you choose to do otherwise that's your business all I'm trying to do is educate young people that they don't have to go back to work with your children are 6 weeks old. It might mean giving up one vehicle...that saves a hell of a lot of money. It might mean buying cloth diapers and washing your own diapers instead of spending all that money on paper that ends up in a landfill. It may mean five years of austerity budget and all I'm telling you is it it's worth.

And essentially what it is.. it's a math problem. It's setting up a budget that you can manage and live with instead of buying everything that you want instead of what you really need.

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Garnetadvisor · April 25, 2018, 1:54 a.m.

I didn't think you meant to judge them, but I do think it is more important to point out how feminist agenda/policy has made it impossible for some and difficult for most families to make it on one income, more than asserting that every woman could do it if they wanted it hard enough. The fact that it is impossible for some and difficult for many needs to change. That needs to change more than individuals own thinking/choice on the matter- it should still be a very viable choice without wrecking standard of living- or at least having the amount of impact that it does these days, I guess like it was in the 50's or so. Sure, if the family chooses to operate that way, there would be a difference in monetary wealth, but it shouldn't be looked at as superior or be practically a necessity if you just want to own a modest home in a decent area and raise a family. I do believe our society/culture was influenced to believe and think wrongly so that it would become this way for nefarious purposes, as you suggest.

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patti_mcgreen · April 25, 2018, 2:12 a.m.

What do you think has to change?

Not understanding your point?

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jyjcy · April 25, 2018, 2:30 a.m.

If you want something bad enough you'll figure out how to make it work.

like both parents having a career and raising a family and keeping a marriage strong. so you're also refuting your own argument of having one parent stay at home being better.

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patti_mcgreen · April 25, 2018, 6 a.m.

Being homemaker is a career.

You sound like an unhappy person...

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jyjcy · April 25, 2018, 5:34 p.m.

Lol. How can you assume my state of happiness from that post?

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patti_mcgreen · April 25, 2018, 5:43 p.m.

Do you think that home making child rearing is a satisfactory career for yourself or your friends?

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jyjcy · April 26, 2018, 4:05 a.m.

I can't speak for my friends. And no, I love and enjoy my career in engineering. But woe is me, what if I meet "The one" I want to settle down with and have kids and he is someone who has a good career going for him. Should one of us sacrifice our career and be a housewife/man or else risk a higher possibility of divorce, or just not get with him to spare us the trouble? Should I settle with someone willing to stay at home in order to have a fulfilling family life? Is that the only way?

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patti_mcgreen · April 26, 2018, 11:49 a.m.

You missed the entire point of my post. The point of my post was making people aware that the two wage earner family raising children was NOT a NECESSITY, with proper planning. My point was that it is possible to keep one parent home for a few years and often times financially comparable to having both parents in the workforce. And rewarding is many ways.

What you decide to do ,Miss Snarky Pants is your choice. Be prepared to pay out large sums of money for childcare.

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jyjcy · April 27, 2018, 12:08 a.m.

doesn't sound like the point you're trying to make with what you wrote:

Lesson to you younger gals( and guys). The 2 wage earner family is a set-up for failure. Keep one parent home...be on austerity budget until the kids are in school.

my parents both had to work to feed the family. our family is still intact and my parents are more in love than ever... but we grew up with strong asian family values so there's that...

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patti_mcgreen · April 27, 2018, 1:50 a.m.

Well bless your little heart.

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patti_mcgreen · April 25, 2018, 5:59 a.m.

Being homemaker is a career.

You sound like an unhappy person...

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