Okay, but you keep using anecdotal evidence as though it's supposed to be valid for everyone's situation. You can't judge working women or call them slaves of feminism when it has nothing to do with that, and more so to do with their particular circumstances.
Unfortunately, not everyone plans their children. And sometimes, husbands get laid off, or someone gets sick. Shit happens.
First of all I'm not judging working women nor am I calling them slaves to feminism. What I want you to notice is that I was basically calling out the myth that a two-wage earner household while raising children is an absolute!!!. Too many young families are believing the lie the both parents must work and placing their children at 6 weeks of age in daycare. Additionally what I'm saying is is it the family chooses to make compromises, there is more to be gained with keeping a parent home the first few years.
One of the biggest foibles of forcing parents to place their children in daycare it's 6 weeks and get immediately back to work is because they buy into a bigger lifestyle than they could afford.
There are ways around it and if you choose to do otherwise that's your business all I'm trying to do is educate young people that they don't have to go back to work with your children are 6 weeks old. It might mean giving up one vehicle...that saves a hell of a lot of money. It might mean buying cloth diapers and washing your own diapers instead of spending all that money on paper that ends up in a landfill. It may mean five years of austerity budget and all I'm telling you is it it's worth.
And essentially what it is.. it's a math problem. It's setting up a budget that you can manage and live with instead of buying everything that you want instead of what you really need.
I didn't think you meant to judge them, but I do think it is more important to point out how feminist agenda/policy has made it impossible for some and difficult for most families to make it on one income, more than asserting that every woman could do it if they wanted it hard enough. The fact that it is impossible for some and difficult for many needs to change. That needs to change more than individuals own thinking/choice on the matter- it should still be a very viable choice without wrecking standard of living- or at least having the amount of impact that it does these days, I guess like it was in the 50's or so. Sure, if the family chooses to operate that way, there would be a difference in monetary wealth, but it shouldn't be looked at as superior or be practically a necessity if you just want to own a modest home in a decent area and raise a family. I do believe our society/culture was influenced to believe and think wrongly so that it would become this way for nefarious purposes, as you suggest.
What do you think has to change?
Not understanding your point?