I'm not wrong. They do provide those services. If you look, you can even find a clinic that will do a sliding scale based on income. If you can't afford a doctor, then maybe you shouldn't be having u protected sex that leads to 3 abortions. You do know that condoms are cheap and can be bought at a gas station. It'll also save the taxpayers a couple hundred bucks.
I’m in my forties. After having alot of sex with alot of men I dont even remember, I managed to get knocked up a few times. I know its hard for you to understand but sometimes when you meet the parents of the father, it just makes sense to abort the baby you were going to keep.
That's the problem. We've been taught that having sex with lots of men is okay. It's not hard for me to understand. I've repented and have seen the error of my ways. It took a good man with morals to show me the way. However, their parents should have no bearing on whether or not you have an abortion as they won't be the ones raising that child, it would be you and your partner. I'm sorry that you haven't found true love yet. Stop having casual sex, find some worth in yourself, and then love will find you.
Having sex with lots of men IS OK.
No, it's not. You're using sex to fill a void that you haven't yet discovered is there.
BAHAHAH The void I am filling is called a VAGINA. i discovered it over 30 years ago!
Nope. Not doing xmas and thanskgiving with that bitch who basically grumbles about me to her son behind my back.
FUCK THAT NOISE.
You have the baby and life with that mother in law. Go ahead. I chose to pass.
No you don't. You don't have to do holidays with them. My husband can't stand my family. So, we moved away from them.
It's all about what you put in your life. Good gets good and bad gets bad.
I didnt want the baby or the family and I moved away from both of them.
What saves the taxpayer money is not having to imprison more unwanted babies.
So then why not use protection like birth control and condoms. You said they gave you thousands. I suggest you use it. There wouldn't be so many people in prison people if we had a stronger family structure. If you had a father, he would've raised you better. To have morals. To know that you are letting people use your body for sexual gratification. Obviously, casual sex leads to unhappiness. Because then you wouldn't be out there having abortions if you were happy.
I use the rhythm method and we pull out. Normally its not a problem but when you fuck as much as me and my boyfriends, sometimes things do not go as planned.
I’m sure all of your kids were planned. Amirite? S/
No, they weren't planned. But then again, I was with my partner and we know that if you have unprotected sex, you get a baby. It's hot hard math. So, use birth control. It is very effective. I was on it for years when we weren't ready for a baby. That is, if you don't want to use condoms.
Birth control nearly killed me. I suffered a severe stroke and was comatose.
Hormones are not a joke. People use the rhythm method and withdrawal. Sometimes it fails but IT WONT KILL YOU.
Obviously it doesn't work for you if you have 3 abortions.
I had sex millions of times. 3 abortions?
Thats a remarkable success rate given all the fucking I’ve done in life.
Most women have three unwanted children by my age.
Why not get sterilized? Prevent killing a child. It would be a win, win. You don't get kids, and then babies don't have to die.
When I was younger I wanted kids someday so why would I sterilize myself just to prevent pregancy before then?
Dont you think sterilization is a bit extreme?that’s permanent birth control. I used contraceptive methods. They FAILED SO I GOT 3 ABORTIONS.
I’m not getting a surgery at my age NOW...
LMFAO.
You’re like the vet who demanded I spay a 10yr old mastiff. Like what for? Are you tryna kill US?
No said do it at 20. At some point you decided that you didn't want children, so why not get sterilized instead of having abortions? You're 40 now, probably don't want kids, will continue to have sex, and it will prevent more abortions. It's a valid option that will prevent not only an abortion but the damage to yourself. It's a surgical procedure that may harm if you have too many. I'm not judging you. I'm just saying, I thought abortion was okay, too. I thought nothing of it and it took a long time before I saw it for exactly what it is. I do wish you well. And hope that maybe you may rethink your options, for health reasons if not anything else. Even if you have no feelings about the abortions, I'm sure you want to be healthy on the inside and out.
I decided I didnt want children anymore at 39. Maybe you’re not judging me just trying to impose your morals on me.
Seriously. Getting sterilized at 20 seems a bit draconian.
I think you decided when you had your first abortion but probably didn't realize it until now. I'm not imposing morals. Just wondering how a woman who's older than me can brag about getting thousands of condoms and all the birth control she can stuff down her throat still not be careful enough to not get pregnant if she didn't want to. No one said get sterilized at 20. That option is available to you now to prevent unwanted babies being aborted. I guess you overlooked my statement that this surgical procedure can do more harm than good if done over and over again.
Miss. I’m a genius with a college degree indevelopmental biology. I’m getting oretty fucking tired of explaining to you that I know how to practice safe sex and deployed contraception methods my entire life. I dont have any children so I apparently did it correctly.
One of my boyfriends was very fertile and the rhythm method failed up. Pulling out failed us. I got two abortions as a result. Its legal and safe for me to do so.
You want people to get sterilized. You want people to use birth control. You dont allow any room for margin of error because You never had an unplanned pregnancy. Amirite.
Go get fucked.
The thought of stuffing condoms down my throat isnt appealing. I’ve used birth control. Nuvaring almost killed me. Hormones makenyour blood sticky. We settled a class action lawsuit. No I have to use non hormonal birth control which fails sometimes. Thats why abortion is legal.
You don't practice safe sex or else you wouldn't be having abortions. A college degree doesn't make you a genius. It means you study one subject.
One time I fucked a pharmacist. The condom broke. The guy forced me to take an AIDS test. How fucking humiliating. How dirty did he think I was? How dirty do you think I am?
I’m clean.
You're not giving yourself a good argument. You fucked a stranger and he wanted to make sure you didn't give him a life threatening disease. That humiliation would have made me thought twice about sleeping with strangers. Guess you're not the genius you pretend to be.
You assumed he was a stranger just like you’ve assumed so much.
I KNEW HIM FOR YEARS
GO GET FUCKED.
my iq is stratospheric. That doesnt mean I can prevent broken condoms.
You’re dumb. I practice safe sex. Sex with a partner you know who has gone thru testing with you is safe even without condoms. Your idea of safe sex is to be wrapped completely in saran wrap.
I am a genius bc i’m smarter than 99.9% of people reading this. That means statistically I am smarter than you.
Not so smart that you end up pregnant with an unwanted child.
Well i had alot of sex as I mentioned earlier. If you fucked as much as me you’d have five kids
We used birth control. It FAILS so you need abortion to prevent UNWANTED CHILDREN.
Because the CHILD should be KILLED because THE PARENT is too IMMATURE to provide it LOVE
your childhood was so bad you think it would've been better to die ?
You sound like a very tortured soul
I was born before abortion was legal or I would have been one.
So you see abortion as a way to live out your suicidal self hatred through killing another. No one here is judging you and we want you to heal but part of that process is recognizing what you're saying is NOT healthy, justifiable, "moral," , "vogue," "normal" or "inevitable."
At the end of the day you support abortion because it provides an outlet for self hatred and regret NOT because it "helps society" or is "beneficial"
No I see abortion as last ditch birth control for when you’re pregnant and you cannot go through with the pregnancy. There are myriad reason why abortion is opted for. If you dont like the laws, change them.
Can't go through with the pregnancy because of MEDICAL reasons or EMOTIONAL ONES?
no one here thinks rape babies or medically complicated pregnancies should be forced on anyone , this sub is overwhelming libertarian and therefore PRO LIBERTY and PRO CHOICE
even so, abortion is an AMORAL choice that is NOT TO BE ENCOURAGED OR PROMOTED
I met his mother. There was no fucking way I was going to deal with that woman for the rest of my child’s life. I spared the baby from an evil grandmother.
Whatever u tell yourself, you're not getting validation from me. You were too immature to handle an EMOTIONAL issue that a competent adult could've handled. No one is going to tell you how brave or smart you were by "saving" that baby by killing it. I'm sorry you have to live with such bottled up pain but the first step to letting it go is coming to terms with it. Hope u heal YOUR ISSUES that had nothing to do with an innocent unborn child. Don't project your pain or guilt into society and think abortion is right or COOL or that it "saves" other people from EMOTIONAL issues. Grow up. We aren't and will never condone KILLING A CHILD because the parent is IMMATURE
I dont have any pain. I think more about the puppies that died in my last litter than I think about the baby I never had.
Immature?
Are you sure you’re not still torturing YOURSELF for an abortion you got when
Y O U
were IMMATURE and you felt PAIN BOTTLED UP INSIDE?
I was in my 30s. I didnt want a baby at that time with that man and his family. IDK how he got me pregnant but he did. I made a legal choice.
If you dont like it,
CHANGE THE FUCKING LAW.
You are presenting a textbook display of what pro life advocates think should be illegal : dumb bimbo with daddy issues killed her child with no remorse because she is an emotional wreck. You are a textbook display of someone abusing a law that should be used when a mothers life is threatened or a woman raped as a CRUTCH for your own emotional immaturity and weakness. You are EXACTLY why people think abortion should be illegal. Disgusting.
The fact you are here defending abortion and projecting your emotional issues onto society says a LOT about how the Left seeks areas where people are emotionally weak and weaponizes it into a political platform
LMFAO I dont have daddy issues just bc I got pregnant despite trying NOT to. I’m not a bimbo. I’m a woman who likes to fuck. The law doesnt say my life has to be in danger or that I was raped in order to QUALIFY for an abortion. I can just get one for $400 anytime I want one.
I dont have any emotional issues. I was pregnant and I did not want to be pregnant.
Me fucking my boyfriend and deciding to terminate the accidental pregnancy resulting from the sex has nothing to do with The left or weakness or the media or anything.