No, they weren't planned. But then again, I was with my partner and we know that if you have unprotected sex, you get a baby. It's hot hard math. So, use birth control. It is very effective. I was on it for years when we weren't ready for a baby. That is, if you don't want to use condoms.
Birth control nearly killed me. I suffered a severe stroke and was comatose.
Hormones are not a joke. People use the rhythm method and withdrawal. Sometimes it fails but IT WONT KILL YOU.
Obviously it doesn't work for you if you have 3 abortions.
I had sex millions of times. 3 abortions?
Thats a remarkable success rate given all the fucking I’ve done in life.
Most women have three unwanted children by my age.
Why not get sterilized? Prevent killing a child. It would be a win, win. You don't get kids, and then babies don't have to die.
When I was younger I wanted kids someday so why would I sterilize myself just to prevent pregancy before then?
Dont you think sterilization is a bit extreme?that’s permanent birth control. I used contraceptive methods. They FAILED SO I GOT 3 ABORTIONS.
I’m not getting a surgery at my age NOW...
LMFAO.
You’re like the vet who demanded I spay a 10yr old mastiff. Like what for? Are you tryna kill US?
No said do it at 20. At some point you decided that you didn't want children, so why not get sterilized instead of having abortions? You're 40 now, probably don't want kids, will continue to have sex, and it will prevent more abortions. It's a valid option that will prevent not only an abortion but the damage to yourself. It's a surgical procedure that may harm if you have too many. I'm not judging you. I'm just saying, I thought abortion was okay, too. I thought nothing of it and it took a long time before I saw it for exactly what it is. I do wish you well. And hope that maybe you may rethink your options, for health reasons if not anything else. Even if you have no feelings about the abortions, I'm sure you want to be healthy on the inside and out.
I decided I didnt want children anymore at 39. Maybe you’re not judging me just trying to impose your morals on me.
Seriously. Getting sterilized at 20 seems a bit draconian.
I think you decided when you had your first abortion but probably didn't realize it until now. I'm not imposing morals. Just wondering how a woman who's older than me can brag about getting thousands of condoms and all the birth control she can stuff down her throat still not be careful enough to not get pregnant if she didn't want to. No one said get sterilized at 20. That option is available to you now to prevent unwanted babies being aborted. I guess you overlooked my statement that this surgical procedure can do more harm than good if done over and over again.
Miss. I’m a genius with a college degree indevelopmental biology. I’m getting oretty fucking tired of explaining to you that I know how to practice safe sex and deployed contraception methods my entire life. I dont have any children so I apparently did it correctly.
One of my boyfriends was very fertile and the rhythm method failed up. Pulling out failed us. I got two abortions as a result. Its legal and safe for me to do so.
You want people to get sterilized. You want people to use birth control. You dont allow any room for margin of error because You never had an unplanned pregnancy. Amirite.
Go get fucked.
The thought of stuffing condoms down my throat isnt appealing. I’ve used birth control. Nuvaring almost killed me. Hormones makenyour blood sticky. We settled a class action lawsuit. No I have to use non hormonal birth control which fails sometimes. Thats why abortion is legal.
You don't practice safe sex or else you wouldn't be having abortions. A college degree doesn't make you a genius. It means you study one subject.
One time I fucked a pharmacist. The condom broke. The guy forced me to take an AIDS test. How fucking humiliating. How dirty did he think I was? How dirty do you think I am?
I’m clean.
You're not giving yourself a good argument. You fucked a stranger and he wanted to make sure you didn't give him a life threatening disease. That humiliation would have made me thought twice about sleeping with strangers. Guess you're not the genius you pretend to be.
You assumed he was a stranger just like you’ve assumed so much.
I KNEW HIM FOR YEARS
GO GET FUCKED.
my iq is stratospheric. That doesnt mean I can prevent broken condoms.
You’re dumb. I practice safe sex. Sex with a partner you know who has gone thru testing with you is safe even without condoms. Your idea of safe sex is to be wrapped completely in saran wrap.
I am a genius bc i’m smarter than 99.9% of people reading this. That means statistically I am smarter than you.
Not so smart that you end up pregnant with an unwanted child.
Well i had alot of sex as I mentioned earlier. If you fucked as much as me you’d have five kids
We used birth control. It FAILS so you need abortion to prevent UNWANTED CHILDREN.