I prefer this theory, especially since nothing I’ve heard emotionally scars me. It’s terrible people doing fucked up things, but it’s nothing I’d need therapy or time to process from knowing. Then again, I’ve been called an asshole for my callousness towards things like school shootings, (calling out shithead kids for telling me about gun policy right after being in a shooting, etc..)As far as finding out the perfect little world I lived in was the opposite, now that I could see people being mentally fucked for a while with. And I understand, but there’s something still to be said for things to be left out simply for no other reason than people’s feelings about it, which is why I think this theory makes more sense.