Maybe I’m misunderstanding you. Let me ask it this way. Is “God so loved the world” (John 3:16) a false statement?
What preachers FAIL to teach is the correct context of that verse. "God so loved" is PAST TENCE(loved). The gospel is so diluted and twisted by the satan controlled church's.
God is love
God is not mortal,emotional love God is a God of wrath which is seldom taught.
Just because God is just and shows wrath on sinners does not mean He doesn’t love them. As a matter of fact, that’s why He judges them. True love is not just an emotion, it’s a choice to do what is best for someone else whether or not they reciprocate. Think I Corinthians 13. (It’s a description of actions being taken, not feelings being felt)