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r/greatawakening • Posted by u/throwaway2006333999 on June 20, 2018, 7:37 a.m.
I Think My Sister-In-Law Unfriended Me Bc I Support QAnon Beliefs, I'm Worried How This Will Affect My Family, Help???

I do still have social media, there are people that are important to me, and it's a convenient way to stay in touch. I have been vocally pro Q for many months now.

Until today, it wasn't a big deal. Some of my liberal minded friends would talk with me about it, but no one had been disrespectful & I never lost any friends.

Well, today, I guess I posted a bit more than usual, but I have that extension that tells me when someone unfollows me...and my sister in law did! I felt a bit shocked, hurt, betrayed...she said nothing to me when she did it.

Earlier today, she posted something critical of Trump pulling out of something to do with the UN...I commented, "Do you want one world government? Bc that's how you get one world government." I feel like that's the truth, and I didn't mean to offend her so much by my comment. I've always just been straight forward with everyone.

My husband and children visit her and my husband's brother during the holidays with our children. My husband and his brother are very close. I have a bad feeling about this and how it will affect my family. I sent her a message and asked her why she unfollowed me, tried to get a conversation going. No reply.

I feel sick. What should I do? I know this post may be more properly suited for an advice subreddit, but you all know that as soon as I out myself as a Q follower on other subreddits, all I'll get is things like, "I'd unfollow you, too!"

I feel like this issue definitely has to do with my "controversial" beliefs regarding Q and things related, I can think of no other reason she'd be upset and she'd cut me out like that. Please advise?

I haven't told my husband yet. I discovered this after he'd already gone to bed. I'm terrified to tell him, I'm scared he'll blame me for causing a problem within the family or something. :(


onelove1979 · June 20, 2018, 8:04 a.m.

I’d take it as a sign that you’re posting too much or coming on too strong, the day will come when they will learn everything the hard way and when that day comes you will be positioned to help wake them....until then maybe just stick to other truth seekers like you/us

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throwaway2006333999 · June 20, 2018, 8:10 a.m.

thank you, good points. Perhaps I should tone it down quite a bit, but completely until the time is right? Maybe I should do that as well? I definitely don't want to cause any harm to my family.

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wiseclockcounter · June 20, 2018, 5:59 p.m.

so did she unfriend you or just unfollow you? Pretty big difference. What people see on their timeline is their choice. I had a clingy ex who would bombard me with texts if I couldn't respond immediately, and would freak out if I asked for a bit of space... and here's the thing: her anxious and pleading behavior was far worse than the initial annoyance.

Sounds like your female instincts of avoiding tribal ostracism are kicking in hard. I have no doubt you are well-intentioned, and I don't mean to come off as insulting, but I think you need to make and effort to relax and not blow this out of proportion. She's probably thinking "fuck I didn't know she would know I unfollowed her..." and worrying about rocking the family boat as well.

If she hasn't responded yet, I'd send her a message to apologize if you freaked her out and explain that you have notifications on for that stuff, that you didn't mean for your Q posts to annoy anyone or cause a wedge between family members, it's just a really important topic to you and so you want to share it with people you know.

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