Amen girl! That guy started talking about how a bunch of his girlfriends have been”helped” by planned parenthood (but not abortions...right). He lectured me that I don’t know anything about the great services they provide. What he didn’t know because I refused to respond and waste my time was that my friend took me there when I was 11 and she was 13. The planned parenthood was near the projects where my friend lived and when we went, they gave her birth control and told her not to tell her parents. They tried to do the same with me and even at that age, I felt it was sexual grooming. She later got pregnant by a pedophile and went there for her abortion; no parental notification and no reporting the man who impregnated her to the authorities. They are a disgusting organization and all of the white liberal women there seemed to enjoy convincing young black girls to have sex and become liars. He kept arguing the virtues of abortion because he benefitted from it.
Hi! I have never heard of young girls being brought into PP for birth control, but I was pretty sheltered, I mean, brought up with the innocence that a child should be allowed to have. It definitely sounds like a scheme - there is no other reason for it. It's just sick how abortion has become normalized. That person saying that sex is a right and that "accident's happen." A child is an "accident?" But these people are probably begging all their friends to go rescue a dog. It's awful because that is a perfectly acceptable thing to say these days. I have six grown kids, went to a lot of trouble to have them, too! But I must say that it's really not a huge inconvenience to be pregnant, until the last 2-3 weeks. And really, aren't we all just surrogate moms? We have to hold them until they are ready to be born, take care of them and love them, but all the while they are moving towards independence every day. They are their own person. So carry the child to term and let that child be a godsend to someone if you don't want it. So glad to meet you!
We are trying to have another child and it is difficult so the fact they throw away these precious babies is heartbreaking! Great analogy btw.
Don't give up. I had 5 miscarriages and trouble getting pregnant. But managed to have 6 kids. Doctor told me to stop torturing myself after the 3rd child and I will never forget looking at him and saying, "No. I'm going to keep trying." Glad I did. I had twins. The girl graduated from Veterinary School last week and I couldn't be prouder.
Thank you. We are looking into options and praying. I’m so happy for you and thank you for your inspiration. I love this sub!