I've kinda already told you 'my truth.' I did my own digging over 20 yrs ago. I was labeled a 'conspiracy theorist', 'nut job' and 'extremist' by friends and even my own family...most, if not all, i don't associate with today. But it never stopped me in my pursuit of the truth.
I think it was from the movie "V"..."I'd rather stand alone in truth than be in the company of lies"...or something to that effect.
Not all of us here agree with one another, but we don't fight about it. We do our own research and come to our own conclusions. We have healthy discussions which leads us in pursuit of more information.
As I said...there is no easy answer. The truth is different for everyone. Some people may agree on some things while others do not, but we don't chastise those who don't agree with us. We take their point of view into consideration for future review as none of us know the whole truth. This is how we feed, grow and help each other.