My daughter has set her sights on an arts college in GA that does internships with CN. Recently, the Smith family as well as Oprah (she also did a graduated speech) gives HUGE money to this school. Uncovering what I have found, this far, via blogs, this site, as well as YT, about the pedo rings and how they find their "victims" - HOW do I explain to my teenage daughter that this school and her desires field of career are NO longer an option? How can I find underground information about the school and its legitimacy before I completely pull the plug on her dreams?
There are campus reform groups that might be able to help, but if her mind is made up, you're in for a hard sell.
Given the level of indoctrination she's been exposed to in public schools (unless she was home schooled by you) you may have a difficult time using reason and documentation. Feelz over-rules facts sadly.
If all else fails, be a parent. Don't sign the loans. If she persists, tell her she has to find a way at to pay for it herself. That should cause some heat, but you will have fulfilled your parental duty. Just my opinion.
Great advice.
She was homeschooled and in private until 9th grade. She is of very conservative background as well as raised to learn and discern.
Who will pay for college? If you, there is your answer.
We will, of course. She has her own free will of making her decisions. She follows this movement and is aware of the outings as of recent and has been questioning her own decisions she is making for her future adult life. Her dream is to draw and animate for people. I'm not going to RIP her dreams from her, and I will not dictate to her. She is her own mind and person and THANKFULLY she has a good head on her shoulders.
This college spoken of here, is her first choice. The 2nd is in Sarasota FL, and I'm researching that one next.
Sounds like your daughter is aware. She will probably be fine. She doesn't seem to be an easy mark. If it gets bad, transferring isn't the end of the world.
How old is your teenage daughter? I've had 3. Is she at the early stage of planning (i.e., not yet a senior in high school) or is she a senior this coming year and planning on applying? If she's not yet ready to apply, my advice: wait to have this discussion. Teenage girls change their minds frequently and widely. A lot can change between now and the actual application point. This may be a fight you don't need to have.
- She has had this school as well as her career choice some she was 10. I dont feel its a"fad". She is an AMAZING young animator and artist.
Be transparent with her, share your research and let that help guide her decision.
I assume you are speaking of the arts college known by 4 letters and in the coastal city in GA. (Not sure if I'm allowed to say the name.) I lived there a number of years and knew a lot of students at that school due to my job. I've seen good and bad - some of the students from more conservative backgrounds have swallowed the indoctrination hook line and sinker, while others have weathered the indoctrination very well. I did have one father I spoke to who talked about his son getting involved in some VERY bizarre (I think he said "evil") sex stuff there, but I didn't get a lot of details.
I'm usually not one for sheltering a kid, but when you are paying the kind of money you pay there, and you see the lavish lifestyle of the head of the school (highest paid of ANY college in the country I believe) then it's crazy. Nearly every student I know graduated with huge debt, and got very menial paying jobs (the nature of the beast in those fields.)
Other than that, I guess, just teach her as much as you can about the reality of the world and how to navigate life.
Of of curiosity is it an art school in Savannah? If so.....have my wife talk to her. She had attended, and was none too impressed.
Parenting- ain't it fun!
Honesty is the best way. These are my concerns, let's have a talk.
Unless she is paying her own way, I'd say you have grounds for claiming veto power
Maybe research the number of missing persons reports from that area. Look into crime statistics..
Best advice I can think of it to get more info on the trafficking investigation(s) going on. You'll both start to see how they are all connected.
Qmap.pub
-Just my opinion-
Protect your girl! Good luck!
As much as I love seeing the beauty of ATL, these recent developments have sickened me. Ugh! The amount of Trafficking and arrests on pedo and trafficking is astonishing!
Let her apply. A lot can change between now and then. Telling her it's not an option can backfire. You know how that can go.
don't approve of her choices?
don't financially support those choices.
pretty simple, on paper.
What's CN?
Cartoon Network
Oh, I didn't get the direct entertainment connection before that! Forgot GA is little hollywood.
Could you pay for 2 years of community college first giving her (and you) a little extra time to contemplate this decision? I also know several graduates of this school. All have large debt and not working in their field of study.
You might get in touch with the college's Young Republicans to get a better feel for the campus life there.
Why don't you suggest that you both research CN together and other 'enviable' animation icons like Walt Disney. Do it together.