The native cultures (probably)swore, ate meat, smoked, did some hallucinogenics, and they lived a much more spiritual life than modern us.
I don't think God/Source/Creator judges at all. He/She/It wants to grow/expand by experiencing everything we experience.
I do believe that benevolent beings DO judge, and want to help us to escape from the Great Deception. The Law of One comes to mind here.
I have finally learned to trust my inner knowing. (after logical thought)