scattered thoughts my ass! Your articulation inspires Luckyanon!!
Undecided anon, Hi!
If I may, the mind is a funny thing and you know that phrase "dont think about pink elephants" and then your mind thinks of pink elephants??
When I am remaking groves in my mind loops, I try to remember this and choose my words wisely,
if you say don't be irritated, your mind hears irritated. and like a faithful servant will do what you say…hearing the vibration of that word….
Positive words are key
there is a reason behind that phrase, 'think positive' that aint just hippy dippy shiiiit.
instead maybe just "accept everyone as he is"
and then you don't create a stasis with two opposite ideas
irritation/acceptance
its a stalemate.
Love on, anon!
We are with you! if you are on the team or not!