This has been discussed here before, but I don't have the capacity to go a-searching for the sauce rn…
There is a science that backs up vibrational
"phase conjunction" in social dynamics.
That person with the strongest, most consistent vibration in the room wins.
Try it some time!
Be the pinecone of love and positivity. (pic related)
I have had success at this IRL, an example:
I was getting on a plane for a short flight on Southwest Airlines, where you have no assigned seat. As usual, not one to get all uppity about traveling, I was one of the last to board. It was a really full flight that was tight on time and the flight attendants were stressing the importance of just sitting down on the first seat seen. So I did. I took the middle seat in between this sweet older lady and giant man, he was probably 6'4" at least. And he was pissed. It seemed he had been trying to hold that seat open with his negative vibe so he could have more space for the flight. Which was silly anyway, because the flight was full.
He had been stewing in it, so the bad vibes were thick! As that energy does, it begets itself and he even seemed to be enjoying being pissed. He was sprawled out all over to my side, his arm obviously and aggressively pushing against mine and sighing loudly. The lady next to me noticed and we exchanged a glance and a giggle.
For whatever reason that day I was just in the pearliest mood. It was a BEAUTIFUL day, so clear with blue skies and a sunny sun. I looked out the window after take off and realized the flight path we were on was on target to fly right over my house. So I just kept my eyes out the window with my body leaned forward so his sprawling body and energy wasn't touching me. After a few minutes I was so stoked to see my house under us and all the familiar landscapes I know from a birds eye view.
I sat back, and noticed he had adjusted himself more comfortably and fit in his seat without leaning on me. A few times he turned his head to glance at me awkwardly. Then he offered me a drink ticket. I got a beer and he a whiskey and coke and we talked for the rest of the flight. Turns out we even had the same exact birthday, the same year even (a fellow taurus) and I was like, "Ha! I recognize that stubborn attitude!"
Moral is: Even assholes are a reflection of you. Your interaction with your reflection is really up to you and the vibration you emit.
Keep that light on anons!
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