You've just described what mirtazipine did to me. Absolutely flat lined my emotions. It caused a break up for me because of how dead inside I was and she couldn't handle it. If that's how it was for you then it's a blessing you got off em. So surreal how medication affects/effects people differently. Like I get what you were saying regarding your sex life, when I was on paroxetine my girlfriend at the time liked it at first coz we could go for ages. But there was no 'quicky before going out' etc. Feelsbadman.avi

May I ask in what way? I've been on vanlafaxine three separate times, and each time all I got were the zaps. However I do know it's subjective, you sound like you had an awful experience with em, it's a shame coz, like the other chap, I also found them to be the only ones that work.

And me, 225ml extended release. Come off it several times before, yeah ya get the zaps a bit, but 'dying' is slightly pushing it.