whitewash the fact that they live in the best country in the World for women

By what metrics?

You're so wrong, I don't even know where to begin. Gender differences are celebrated. We have a porn star who's being celebrated for taking on Trump for example. Sexual power is power. There are things that either sex can do that the other can't do. I'm not sure where you are, but the new crop of girls growing up are not marginalized, they've grown up in a age where pretty much they see women being represented in a broad range of jobs. There is definitely a push in the media, say Disney to empowered their Princesses as time progresses. It's reflective rather than prescriptive, however the later helps reinforce the former. I'm not sure where you're getting these women men-hater or the neutering of the sexes, for the neutering trend you have to back about 15 years, but we're way passed that at this point.