I'm spending Christmas alone this year , again. normally i wouldn't care but this year i actually tried to get a GF spent over $1500 dating. it's depressing as fuck.
How did the dates go: one woman thought I sold drugs i spent half the date explaining how i didn't, i don't. Another asked me if i was going to to put ruffies in her drink if she went to the bathroom, note this was the 3rd date we were on. Another was way older than she said in her bio on a dating site i used. like 20 years older.
others would just lie at the end of the date, say that had a good time and just stop texting me after.
she thought i sold drugs because she asked me "what did you do last month" at the time . I told her about how I went to E3 this year but left out the E3 part. I'm not stupid enough to bring up how much i like video games on the first date. she though i went to LA to sell drugs with people. she filled in the E3 gap with drugs. I think she stop talking to me because she felt embarrassed.
the other woman with the ruffies was random as fuck. we were talking about how her parents were pushing her to change her carrier path and go back to school for a MBA. I was telling her to do what she felt was right. mid conversation she stops and says "I need to go to the bathroom, you're not going to put a ruffie in my drink are you ? " this was from way out of left field. this was the 3rd date , first, went to a vegan place, second, went to a book club event she talked to me about , third, SHE ASKED ME to go to a bar with her, a bar that i never been to. THAT I DID EVEN KNOW WE WERE GOING TO UNTIL WE WALKED PAST IT.
I don't see how that was my fault in any way.
these are two different people
no the drugs was a woman on the first date we only went on one date.. she specifically said " ok so I'll more crazy things about my self , you know, like how … you sold dungs in LA " she got that specifically from my E3 story.
the roofie comment didn't end the date. i said " no that's horrible, did some one do that to you before? " she then went on a story about how she got black out drunk and started trowing up in the back of a taxi. she said her friends thought she go roofied then.
fucking this