At least it's not gay.
Japanese women are gold diggers happy to work men to death. That's why so many men (called grass eaters) are checking out of society. Being seen as nothing more than an expendable workhorse for a wife to leach salary from, hardly ever seeing your own kids, is not appealing. If the rat race wasn't so intense and the women didn't have huge-salary-or-fuck-off standards, then there wouldn't be so many Japanese virgins nor Japanese suicides. Romanticizing foreign women is not helping the situation in the west either.