Dan, honey, it was the best 3 seconds of my life. Never change Dan. Never change.
The flesh turns to dust. We are spiritual beings, souls within flesh, sentient energy. Energy cannot be destroyed. I choose to care for my soul first, body second. I cannot & should not usurp someone else's free will by imposing MY will upon them. I will focus on forever. The now is mostly pain. It will subside. Our (all men, but believe as you please) reward is great beyond imagining.
Focus on forever. The flesh falls away.