Gotta vent for a minute anons. My dying dad created a trust to hold his assets about 10 months before he died and put my penniless, jobless, getting divorced, no place to live, sister in charge of his trust and healthcare while she was living with him for free. She managed to convince/manipulate him back in Aug to sign the entire house over to her and secretly place it as an amendment into the trust. He passed away early this month. She's clearly spent another 25% of the trust money on herself and refuses to provide any accounting or even beginning/ending balances of the trust to my brother and I. The three of us are the sole remaining beneficiaries of the trust. We had a quick meeting with the lawyers on monday, which is where they said they were sending her the updated deed with her name on it. This is when my brother and I found out. Sisteranon is now threatening to terminate our relationship if I continue to ask for the accounting, which the trust clearly states she must provide. I fear that I have been fucked by my sister. All signs point to yes.
I think my best option is for me my brother to vote her out in order to protect what's left of the trust, but I can't be sure that anything IS left. Fuck I'm blown away that my sister would do that not only to my dad but to her brothers. I have been working on about 3 hrs sleep daily since this happened, because I can't stop thinking about it. Unless I'm wrong she's now exposed my dads house to her divorce as one of her assets, which will have to go thru her divorce settlement whenever that happens. The dumbassery is strong with sisteranon.
I knew she had the potential to do this, and now that my dad's gone I'm feeling like I let him down allowing it to happen, but at the same time, it's his fuckin trust. What a massive disappointment in my sister.
I think anything I do (short of allowing her to do what she wants) will only cause more strain on our relationship. Still assesing my next steps, but my interaction with sister will be very low for the foreseeable future. I hate to lose a sister over money or something like this, but… I can't let it stand either. Help me anon-wan-kenobi. You're my only hope.