There are only a handful of moments in time that I am 100% certain were big life changers for me.
One of those moments is giving in to pressure to get a cat for my kid.
That is one moment that I know for sure fucked my life up & continues to do so to this day.
A lesson learned from it is to stand firm on your decisions & listen to your gut ffs
Now I'm stuck with multiple cats & no help with them. But kid is happy