What if energetic attachments don't want you to figure out that you can learn to invoke your right to be sovereign over your energy field and make them leave?
If they need your suffering to survive in this plane, then they have quite the means, motive and opportunity to trick you into thinking they are something over which you have no control, do they not?
Some races of sentient mind-bending creatures have had to adopt energetic parasitism in order to survive in this realm.
Sexual energy is some of the highest grade and most sought after energy.
Many, many Mystery Schools throughout time and geography have taught their initiates that it is imperative to learn to protect one's sexual energy from attempted harvest.
A simple, concrete step in this direction is to set one's intention before sleep that there be no parasites allowed in one's dreamworlds, no matter what in comely form they may appear.