just a question:

what do people think?

if invited to a wedding, when a gift would be appropriate, and finding out that 'not fully vaccinated' even at this late date, are by the bride and groom (at their wedding site) to not come.

So I sent back 'not coming'

but do I send a gift?

I said something to the father of the groom and his suggestion was to 'go get the vax'.

so should I send a wedding gift or not?

PS it's not a religious wedding.

they've already been living together for 3 or more years.

I've not seen them since pre covid.

the bride didn't say hardly anything to me.

gift or no gift?