Exactly. Who is in control of the narrative?
Gotta tell this story…
Got invited to weekend at the company owners lake house with fam (millionaires). Brought our kids, planned to stay the weekend. Get there Sat morning - spend day drinking - sat night this anon is freaked the fuck out. Gets the overwhelming feeling family is in danger and at 3 am I want to leave. I don’t care about anything else I wake the whole family and we head home.
Next year we go again this year no plan to spend the night. Owners wife acts very strange like nothing happened the year prior but proceeds to tell us they had to get all new staff because their landscaper, chef, and maintenance guy all died/suicide. Offer no explanation.
Bothered me for years.