Interdasting.
<<What's the most valuable life tip you can give me? Very open minded anon here.
You didn't ask me personally, but here's my tip.
Don't love and/or forgive people because of what they say or do, but in spite of what they say and do.
I didn't personally know him when he was alive. Now he's dead, so I'm not sure what your point is, unless it's just to test my heart.
The fact is, I've found it possible to forgive and love two people in my life that did HORRENDOUS things to me and my loved ones, including child abuse and murder.
Actually, I learned it in the Bible.