It's my daughter's 24th birthday today. She's refused to talk to me for 6 years now. I sent her a nice text…as I do a coupla times a year but she never even bothers to reply to me so I'm not even sure I have the right number. Just makes me very sad because the first 10-12 years of her life, we were really close. But then her cunt whore semen gargling mother took her away and poisoned her against me. I did the best I could to keep a steady relationship with her after her mother and I split up. I guess she doesn't know that her whore mom cheated on me several times and even after I found out, I still spent 4 more years with her trying to save our family. Getting sick and damn tired of always being the good guy who gets shit on. Sometimes I just want to ram my car through the front door of a bar and clear the fucking place out.
I actually have no relationship at all with her mother. Haven't talked to her in about a decade and my daughter has no idea how I feel about her mother. And my daughter may be young at 24, but she moved far away from her mother to attend college in a big city (Philly) and has since graduated and has moved to NYC…all on her own. Just really don't know what to do to get her back into my life. Should probably just give up because it hurts too much to be continuously rejected.
I don't cry about it. That's Pepe crying. And I honored my Father and Mother until the day each of them died and then some. I've kept my commandments. I've honored my marital vows. My wives? Not so much.
that's exactly what I've been doing and that's exactly my philosophy for moving forward. You a wise anon. We have hive mind, fren.
ok that makes a lot of sense. thanks.
kind of what i've been doing. i don't pressure her into having a relationship with me. but hoping she'll mature, make new connections with others, and maybe realize a relationship with her father would be a good thing.
i've been to therapy and it has helped. i don't dwell on it like i used to. and i pray daily for many things, including repairing my relationship with my daughter.
sry. just needed to purge a bit.
nice idea anon. thx.
i've done talk therapy.
i don't dwell on it anymore. only think about it on special dates anymore. i focus on my current family…my current wife's family.
individual sessions in person, individual sessions online, group sessions in an inpatient setting. stuff like that.
yes…only because i have about 50 i.q. points on the therapist…
"and i'll never see the sudden curve until it's way too late"