I think it is best to not try to make a topic of argument about what someone gets before you know they know the person period so on.
If a person expects something with out knowing me so on then this is a bad sign.
Some people feel they are entitled to things and want to complain after the fact. This why it is best to address things as they become important.
I often gave woman advice that they should check in 3 months saying is this relationship going some where or is what they want but also it is ok to just be as well. However in 6 months it is better to be more objective I feel so on and this to maybe make a choice or decisions is all. Especially for woman wanting to be more serious I would not wait more then 2 years for marriage so on. However if it is a younger couple so on then this is different so on.
Every situation is different is what I find… don’t box yourself in so on to something but have a good general outline so on.