‘Our spark has gone’: The marriages ruined by Ozempic. 1/2
Wed, July 29, 2026 at 11:00 AM ED
Emily* realised her marriage was over the day she was propositioned by a younger male colleague. They had happily worked side by side for years, but she never assumed a man like Julian* – tall, handsome and in his late 20s – would find her attractive.
Six months on Wegovy, a weight-loss jab, changed that.Emily, 35, felt herself being looked at by the opposite sex for the first time in years.
According to research from academics in Sweden, Emily's case is far from unique.In fact, people who undergo rapid weight loss are twice as likely to divorce as the general population. Although the study – which came out earlier this year – focused on people who had been fitted with gastric bands, the lead researcher believesthat the rise of GLP-1s will trigger an even larger divorce trend.
"Very similar mechanisms could occur with Ozempic as with surgery, with regards to changes in relationships," says Professor Per-Arne Svensson, from the University of Gothenburg. "People who embark on the weight-loss journey usually have a lot of other life changes as well. That means that they are probably becoming more social andtrying to live a healthier life. If the partner is not really on the train there, and if they don't follow this person along in this change, that might be something that causes tension."
Emily was initially surprised when she felt Julian gently massage her lower back during after-work drinks. "But I found it really hot, and even though I went home shortly afterwards,
I couldn't get the thought out of my head thatI had felt completely dead from a sexual perspective for a very long time," she recalls.
Later that night, as she watched her husband, John*, get undressed for bed, Emily realised the spark had completely gone from their marriage. She no longer had any urge to sleep with him.
While the era of weight-loss drugs has been heralded as a boon for people who have struggled to have sexual relationships for confidence, less research has been done into themarriages that have been damaged by one person changing their body shape, their attitude to food, and sometimes, their entire personality.
"It could also be that you have a person who is stuck in a bad relationship," adds Professor Svensson, "but doesn't have the self-confidence to break it off because they worry about who would date them, if not their current spouse."
Emily and John got married when they were in their early 30s,and both put on a significant amount of weight in the first few years of their relationship. While Emily was keen to try injectable GLP-1s once they arrived in the UK,John was resistant. Over time, she found herself blossoming. She was delighted to buy new clothes, go out with friends and exercise for the first time in years. Her husband, by contrast, reminded her of the rut she had been in.
"We never had sex," says Emily. "I suspect it was because we found ourselves unattractive, and with time, it became a habit to never touch each other in a sexual way. For a long time, I told myselfit didn't matter because we were good companions, but once my perspective changed, I realised that wasn't true."
Emily's divorce was made easier by the factthat the couple chose not to have children. But for Fiona*, 39, who has three young sons, the prospect of separation is out of the question. Still, she worries that her marriage is no longer as healthy as it was, ironically,because her husband is himself far healthier.
Luke* started taking Ozempic six months ago. He began putting on weight around the birth of their first son. While Fiona stayed trim throughout the baby-making years, he gained about 15kg (2.4st) in total. She supported Luke when he decided to try GLP-1s, but she never expected him to undergo an entire personality change while he was on them.
At first, she was mostly bothered by the obvious differences from their former lives.The couple loved good food and sharing a bottle of wine on weekends, and Fiona missed having a partner with an interest in those things.
Their marriage also felt increasingly unfair. Before Luke began taking medication, Fiona would deal with the boys' bedtimes while he would cook dinner and clean the house. Now, she comes downstairs to an empty kitchen and a husband mutely watching television with a tonic water.
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