Think about how lost, confused, afraid, mind-controlled, deluded they are.
Some will be able to change.
Jesus taught us to love our neighbor.
It's not easy to love someone who is very deluded and misinformed and ignorant.
We need to keep thinking about how to love them.
Because they are our moms and dads, grown children, grandchildren, sisters, brothers, mothers-in-law, uncles, aunts, teaachers, students, co-workers…. They are us, only there is so much they do not know or do not understand.