BlizzardOf78Fag here, and I'm so glad that things have changed with time. Rather than being stuck in a house with a number of family members smoking, drinking, going stir crazy, and getting on each other's nerves, I'm stuck next to a gorgeous body of water, working on two major writing projects that I wanted more time to do, surrounded by my loyal pets who adore me just as much as I adore them, and surrounded by more beautiful wild animals than you can imagine.
Your daughter in law may never wake up, so my advice is steer clear and pray.