I am not the fag that responded to you.
It is heartbreaking that an 80-year old woman cannot see her friend and is dying inside of loneliness. We get it, really, as many of us are here because we have "too much" empathy, and felt that something was wrong/sick int he world and gravitated hear.
But, there is far worse suffering going on every single day for far more people than just one woman.
So, we care a great deal, and sharing stories helps us all, in the end there will be losses and suffering to get us from here to there - and sucking it up and pressing on is the only way we can win.