It's simple. stop doing it. After a short while, the stubble becomes beard. My son, big on his Danish heritage, wears beads in his. Chicks like guys who are men enough to break the mold and go their own way.
I grow mine for a while then get tired of it. I buzz it off and smooth things down with a straight razor. Usually, though, I just shave my head (the same way).
It makes shaving what it should be - a deliberate act - and for that reason, a manly one.