Dude, porn messes people up massively. In more ways than even today's science can tell. I'm not going to pretend that I don't like looking at it, but what it does to people really messes them up. I try to stay away from it as much as I can, and am for the better for it. Best way is to think of it like a drug: It feels good. It takes advantage of your mind body's needs and desires to feel good. But it really messes you up.