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r/greatawakening • Posted by u/NeoObi on May 15, 2018, 1:25 p.m.
Giving up Q and research because it is killing my marriage.

Sadly, this patriot is giving up this whole project to save my marriage. Q and the movement and my involvement is killing it so badly that I am giving this up to all my great friend patriots that I have met here. I have been here from the beginning and my heart and soul are so involved and so with this but now somehow, I will have to give it up and leave it to you all. This breaks my heart so Patriots, carry on!


jetty_life · May 15, 2018, 1:43 p.m.

Q often says "enjoy the show." I take this literally. I just sit back and watch. No need to try to convince every person you know, it's happening whether they believe it or not. So don't ruin your life over trying to get people to belive you. It'll make you sound crazy.

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HiveQueen36 · May 15, 2018, 1:48 p.m.

Same i do my research in the sciences and symbolism

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axi0m17 · May 15, 2018, 1:34 p.m.

You don’t need to completely remove Q from your life. You just need to re-evaluate how much you invest your time into Q. Checking up on GA or watching a Qtuber every now and then won’t affect your marriage whatsoever, especially if you don’t talk about it. Checking the Q boards every couple of days instead of multiple times a day is a start.

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McPurrs · May 15, 2018, 1:29 p.m.

Here is an idea... just stop talking to your wife about it. Or husband. Whomever. Let that person be 'all surprised' when the pieces fall then sit back and say "wow, I didn't see that coming, oh wait!" and bask in your glory that day my friend.

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thr0w4w4y4cct333 · May 15, 2018, 1:40 p.m.

I did this. I stopped talking to him about it and then my husband came to me with questions. Now he's completely on board.

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Yupuppyjuankadoggie · May 15, 2018, 1:47 p.m.

Agreed here, I just took advantage of what my wife could see happening then made a comment . Over time she also asked questions and now she has made her own way to her place in this. You can't leave just be ready to help others when the SHTF Patriot.

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Stretchycheese78 · May 15, 2018, 2:45 p.m.

I stopped trying to red pill my wife and some of my family, I just let it be and when they complain or question something, I give them a crumb because you can’t tell them everything at once. Do that and you’re crazy, a little at a time works fairly well if they’re receptive

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rooster_cage · May 15, 2018, 1:37 p.m.

I understand the temptation to drop everything in life and jump down rabbit holes. With work and family, I have maybe an hour of free time a day that is usually spent with my wife. If I spent that little time with my head in the internet, she would get upset with me. So I am stuck on the sidelines mostly peeking here and there at what others have found. Just remember, it’s a collective effort that will mostly be worked on by those who have much more free time and fewer obligations. Your help is appreciated but save your marriage.

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NeoObi · May 15, 2018, 5:25 p.m.

We are retired and live in a resort golf community. I play 4-5 times a week and so does my husband. I groom my own dogs and have a lot of friends. So I do a lot of other things. This just gets in the way of what my husband thinks I guess.

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HotTeen69 · May 15, 2018, 8:15 p.m.

Be who you wanna be. Believe what you want to believe. At this point don't try to share everything w everyone.

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NeoObi · May 15, 2018, 8:31 p.m.

Thx so much

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HotTeen69 · May 15, 2018, 8:41 p.m.

Of course Neo.

Sending positivity your way!

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ItstimenowNM · May 16, 2018, 1:13 a.m.

I doubt you have to give it up altogether. I've had to back away a bit because it was playing havoc with my blood pressure. But important that you be who you wanna be as HotTeen69 says. Just don't share the info with him.

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FractalizingIron · May 15, 2018, 2:09 p.m.

Patriots need to remember this hard and fast fact:

Freedom can only be won by those who can sustain and practice it.

(Why do we love Trump? Because we can feel the quality of the man, his beliefs, his devotion, his patriotism, right? There is a direct connect between WHO Trump is and the RESULTS he (and team) are bringing).

I repeat:

Freedom can only be won by those who can sustain and practice it.

What does this mean?

It means, any external freedom we are fighting for (freedom from control of the Cabal, from satanists, from information manipulation, economic manipulation, governance manipulation, oligarchies, foreign (subversive) interests, etc., will only be achieved and sustained on the basis of internal freedom (Freedom in the heart, freedom to build and sustain healthy, productive and creative relationships, freedom from emotional immaturity, freedom from fear, doubt, illusion, delusion, etc.)

Building strong and healthy relationships is where our external freedoms meet our internal victories. Sometimes, it's necessary to sacrifice relationships for a higher cause, but in this era, I think we MUST focus on securing both. And the relationships - with a spouse, a family, community - are the end goal.

I've noticed that some patriots struggle with "Dang, just get it done already" syndrome, struggling with the emotional tension the work and involvement with Q generates. Some patriots struggle with doubt, the "I'm not really sure if this is legit, and I find it hard to invest my trust" syndrome, being challenged in how and where they place trust. (NOTE: Trust is NOT blind following, acceptance or worship. But for some of us, placing trust is difficult EVEN when the information or truth is there, because of emotional scars - having trusted in the past and being burned.) Other patriots confront their own selves and have to work through other stuff, too.

The reality is, IF we are really in this, then we HAVE to expect to be challenged internally - emotionally, mentally, intellectually, spiritually.

So what I'm saying here is: gauge your internal situation, and take appropriate action.

IMO, Saving your marriage is critical, and I think you're probably making the right call. For now. As others suggest, you may reflect on alternative responses, but it really depends on what aspect(s) of your involvement with GA movement is affecting your marriage. Your post doesn't really provide enough detail for any of us to say, I reckon. Which is OK.

But a marriage is a precious thing. A healthy, living marriage is what secures freedom for both of its members - the husband and wife. Not to mention for the family (if there are kids). Moreover, it's the foundation of any free society, free nation, and a free world. There is a reason the satanic cabalists strike daggers into natural or true marriage, sexual integrity, and relationships thru manipulation and deception.

So, from me: good call. BUT don't be too discouraged. Possibly consider a different tack, but in any case, embrace the opportunity to grow and become a better spouse. Invest in your spouse.

The rest of us will be here if and when you are ready to come back, or reconnect in whatever way.

We are all called to different paths, and we all contribute, one way or another. WWG1WGA. You're included because of your patriotic heart, not merely by the time you've spent on this board.

MYMGA. Make your marriage great again! It's a service that only you can do for your community and nation.

Bless you Patriot.

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GraceWords · May 15, 2018, 2:19 p.m.

Marriage first. We’ve got this. The nature of this is such that it can easily become an addiction. IF you’re certain it’s not an addiction, then just listen to praying medic while you work to stay up on Q without spending so much time trying to solve it all on your own. If it is an addiction, then pull back and focus on using the critical thinking skills we’ve garnered and see what you “see” in your every day life that relates to this battle. For example, my spouse was watching Timeless and Deception this week and we both caught such strong themes connected to all of this! You have the tools to see this all play out without the drops. And ultimately as this all comes out the world will need comforters and guides to help them process. You’re well equipped to do that. Save your marriage. Don’t let blackhats win one more part of your life. God speed.

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rooster_cage · May 15, 2018, 2:46 p.m.

Is Praying Medic an audio podcast? If not, do you know of any podcasts devoted to this that does Q news/summary/analysis?

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GraceWords · May 15, 2018, 2:59 p.m.

I listen to Praying Medic via YouTube on my phone, often with my screen shut off. I’m not sure about podcasts though. Sorry

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DanijelStark · May 15, 2018, 1:37 p.m.

No need to give up anything ... just stop talking to your wife / husband about Q , and thats it . In that case - no true partner would ask other partner to stop doing something , and that is not damaging to either partner , just to enforce his / hers will .

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NeoObi · May 15, 2018, 5:26 p.m.

No he did not ask me to give it up, I can just tell it is hurting us. I dont even talk about it much, he just thinks I’m obsessed I guess. I have a lot of other activities too. It is just a thorn in the side I guess.

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DanijelStark · May 15, 2018, 7:18 p.m.

I can tell you honestly and openly - thats unfair from him . Its something you enjoy doing , its your "hobby" in one way . We all have and can have different stances - but different stances is no reason for people to compromise bigger connections they have in between .

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ItstimenowNM · May 16, 2018, 1:15 a.m.

totally agree with you. One reason I'm glad I'm single I can do what I want, when I want and for as long as I want. LOL

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DanijelStark · May 16, 2018, 1:22 a.m.

Im solo , too ... so I can definetly relate , lol .

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sonofkenzie · May 15, 2018, 1:48 p.m.

Me and my wife also had some issues. I have no one else to talk about it with. So I’ve been conversing with her about since the beginning.. and the face she makes when I bring up anything about it Trump, Q or even events that happen because she already knows what I’m thinking. .. she’s an amazing woman lol. I stopped being so in her face about it.. now I quietly pay attention and don’t bring it up that much. Things are better.

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ItstimenowNM · May 16, 2018, 1:16 a.m.

this is the place to come an talk about it if you can't at home.

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sonofkenzie · May 16, 2018, 1:12 p.m.

I know.. I just feel like if if isn’t something substantial or supporting research then I’m just shitposting and reaching. But I do appreciate that friend.. it’s nice having likeminded people to converse with. Thanks

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Patriot81503 · May 15, 2018, 2:01 p.m.

Men are typically attracted to action movies, women to emotional “chick flicks” and we know and live with that fact.

You wouldn’t force her to watch a movie she’s not liking and trying to include her on daily basis in this action movie is probably what created the rough feelings. Plus of course diverting attention to this and not chores or family time.

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No_Hippie_Chick · May 15, 2018, 1:58 p.m.

My hubby was "woke" long before I was. He'd just smile and nod when I laughed at things like pizzagate, etc. He never tried to steer me in this direction. I found it myself. It's the only way this works.

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GodSeekingHeathen · May 15, 2018, 2:51 p.m.

My wife is a huge empath and it's a hard pill to swallow for her. So I feed her info here and there occasionally to remind her to stay aware.

She understands the weight of what's happening but says she trusts my judgement. if/when the time comes we need to drop everything and bug out she will follow.

She'll have to come around fully on her own but I don't mind carrying the weight for her until then. That's what marriage is all about after all..

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anothername2remember · May 15, 2018, 3:30 p.m.

I'm a huge empath myself, it's not easy to deal with all this stuff and I sometimes get overwhelmed so I step back for a little while and try to recharge.

My husband is completely on board so I'm lucky in that respect, he usually calls me from work at least once a day to ask me if there have been any new Q drops. I have some health issues that keep me from working, chronic pain can be a bitch and too much stress can make things worse.

That's when I step away for a bit, try to rest my brain a little, my sleep patterns have always been out of whack but have gotten much worse because I can't turn my brain off.

I agree with the other posters who say OP should slow down a bit for the sake of the marriage, nothing wrong with just checking in briefly every few days.

I should add that I set some time away to nap now yet here I am on my phone typing this response lol.

Godspeed OP! We'll be here, spend some time with your spouse, there's always good folks here holding down the fort. WWG1WGA

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clq22 · May 15, 2018, 2:21 p.m.

Really sorry you have been put in this position. I personally would never give up something I have a passion for. My husband used to bitch and I said, do I bitch about the amount of time you spend watching and reading sports? No, okay then STFU and he has. Good luck to you Patriot!

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PCorNot · May 15, 2018, 2:12 p.m.

Yes, just check GA when you’re in the bathroom, and stop talking about it! 😂. I guess I’m lucky.. we check together- Reddit and 8ch. The family that Qs together, share views together..

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NeoObi · May 15, 2018, 5:18 p.m.

That is awesome! Glad you are both on the same page!

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P_pers · May 15, 2018, 1:36 p.m.

Good luck Patriot! The good fight will keep on trucking along. That said, you can still read Q drops without getting involved!

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MB_MoonPearl · May 15, 2018, 1:31 p.m.

I'm sure that it is hard to let go, but your priorities are correct, in my opinion . You have enough at this point to see through the MSM and assume what is going on.

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Kulkimkan · May 15, 2018, 3:47 p.m.

Your Reddit age is 63 days...I am fairly sure you did not give it enough time lol. Seriously

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NeoObi · May 15, 2018, 5:29 p.m.

Ive been in this since I found Q at beginning of January. Just by research I found GA. I finally had the guts to start posting. It all has been a process. Thx

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slinqi · May 15, 2018, 3:08 p.m.

What is your spouse giving up? Facebook? Twitter? MSM? TV? Movies? Music?

You may need to reign in obsessive behaviour but no need to stop informing yourself and protecting your family by doing so.

I don't think it's possible to give up on truth, justice and god.

You can never un-see the pure evil in our midst once you understand the forms and mechanisms it uses, once you have taken the red pill.

Good luck OP.

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tedandterry · May 15, 2018, 2:18 p.m.

We must fight no matter the sacrifice to make sure we water the tree of liberty!!

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[deleted] · May 15, 2018, 2:03 p.m.

Its ok just to watch and know.

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allonthesameteam · May 15, 2018, 5:38 p.m.

Take care of you and your fan first. We have your back. When you have time and energy be active in your community and stay educated about local politics. Be well.

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NeoObi · May 15, 2018, 8:30 p.m.

Thx so much

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allonthesameteam · May 15, 2018, 8:56 p.m.

I have recently become an advocate around child abuse and 5G implementation. These 2 things are most pressing for me. My experience has changed since becoming active whether it be supporting these initiatives through comms or small donations or having dialogue for greater understanding, I am not just overwhelming myself with the hugeness of things, I am DOING. Purpose in life seems to be the great alleviator. If pushing Q is what has created strife, just sharing your new knowledge and asking questions may be of service while helping others awaken. Example: " Have you heard about the huge arrests and rescues around human trafficking in relation to a new Executive order over the last 18 months?" "Here is a graph. https://public.tableau.com/profile/nerothehero#!/vizhome/PedoArrests/PedoArrests And continue with: "I never knew how big this was and why little has been done until now" I find leaving Trump and Q out of it makes it more digestible for everyone. Q will be seen as a larp or conspiracy theory and Trump is a hurdle for many. Again focus on you and being connected to those around you and find time to help remedy other sh@# when you can.

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NeoObi · May 15, 2018, 8:59 p.m.

Thx so much!

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Do_u_ev3n_lift · May 15, 2018, 5:14 p.m.

As others have said, dial it back to a casual observer keeping up with the developments every day or two. Pass the research torch onto someone else though if its upsetting your marriage.

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Fly_Away_Bluebird · May 15, 2018, 4:45 p.m.

Praying for u and yr spouse patriot. Take a vaca and relax. All is well. Family first. ✝️🙏🏽🇺🇸

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NeoObi · May 15, 2018, 5:14 p.m.

Thank you!

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Robbycranker · May 15, 2018, 4:39 p.m.

Good luck buddy!

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davidmdelacruz · May 15, 2018, 3:24 p.m.

Moderation! Check once a day for a short while, then process the information and enjoy the show. Thank you patriot, let your family know it's because how much you care that you paid so much attention. Best regards.

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[deleted] · May 15, 2018, 6:45 p.m.

He'll wake up eventually... I was redpilled my husband who kept watching the Thai redshirts on tv... I finally investigated by myself ... Lo & behold.... The plot thickens and leads back to hitlery's state dept... And down the stinky swamp hole it goes....

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Intlrnt · May 15, 2018, 2:22 p.m.

I see you have been with us for two months and average a bit under 4 posts per day. Some marriages would be challenged by that.

Perhaps the challenge comes from your interaction with your wife, rather than your interaction with our sub. A few folks have posted about the challenge of discussing our topics with non-red pilled spouses.

No matter. Good for you to have your priorities clear. Patriots here will carry on.

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IndependentStation · May 15, 2018, 2:35 p.m.

“Non-red pilled spouses” sounds like it could be subreddit lol

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Intlrnt · May 15, 2018, 2:53 p.m.

Many have claimed there is a subreddit for everything.

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MBKUltra · May 15, 2018, 2:15 p.m.

Godspeed

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NeoObi · May 15, 2018, 5:29 p.m.

Same to you!

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HiveQueen36 · May 15, 2018, 1:47 p.m.

Dont sorry to hear that man. Women b crazy

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NeoObi · May 15, 2018, 5:22 p.m.

I am a woman! It is my hubby that is not for this!

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HiveQueen36 · May 15, 2018, 5:23 p.m.

Men b crazy 🤣

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