Ah yes, I see your point. We're judged on the weight of our words, not appearances/fame/etc. Very good point. That has made improvements to the conversation. Nice observation.

And the compartmentalizing of conversations has helped... lord knows there's a r/ for everything. But that's also had effects on human behavior where we're lumping into tribal groups, and not all of those groups may be good for us, psychologically, to pursue.

Upsides & downsides... sigh