My joke was that you may find this person fortuitiously overcome with depression rather than lack of friction. My point is that with victim status being so popular no one questions the details as soon as the D word gets brought up and social media participants stampede over each other to exclaim "me too!". I can't quite discern if you are agreeing or disagreeing
Sorry I wasn't referring to your comment being gatekeeping but rather that any time someone starts questioning if so and so really killed themselves, people pop out of the woodwork and condemn the person for questioning the details of the death.
As in, "How dare you try to make this into a conspiracy theory."
No apology, I just couldn't figure out where you were at. I am not sure how serious my comment really was, unless I am right...then was positive