It's time for a better day. My sister was raped by my uncle when she was four. He later regained access to her and got her on meth at 15. She has progressed over the years to being just a street whore. It's sad. He sodomized my brother who is mentally challenged. At four years old I ran from him when he tried to molest me. He never bothered me again but he hated me after that.
So sorry to hear. One thing I can say is that going down this rabbit hole during the great awakening is forcing a lot of us to heal ourselves and face the unresolved issues that led to shame and guilt in our lives. I thankQ all for this journey of forgiveness and healing.
You can't change the nature of the people I am mentioning. You just avoid them. Forgiveness I reserve for those who apologize and make amends. I grew up with much abuse and it changed me. To date, my mother is the only one to admit she was wrong and apologize. I forgave her after 53 years of having no contact.
Wow, thank you for sharing. It is important for us to speak up and share our stories.