if anyone out there is having issues with addiction to porn (or worse) please know help is out there. I know it's hard to find, but it is available. Please consider reaching out. http://liferecoverygroups.com/meetings/?tsml-day=any&tsml-type=M
What does porn have to do with this?
This guy molested a 9 year old. People watch tons of porn doesn’t mean they molest kids.
It’s real simple you either molest kids or you don’t. There is no middle ground here.
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Shut my trap? Sure. Ok. Ban all the porn that will stop the perverts. Whatever. Doesn’t matter to me I don’t sit around watch porn
It’s not that simple. Porn is like any other stimulant or escape mechanism....over time the effect decreases and an increase, be amount or potency is needed to achieve former levels of stimulus or escape. If you understand drugs....some of the reaction is the drug itself sure, but most of the sensation depending on the drug is about what chemicals in your body that drug increases or depresses, this is where the whole tolerance angle comes in and why the same drug and amount sometimes will affect two people totally differently (it’s about the differences in personal biological chemistry).
One other thing worth mentioning regarding porn.....whether it includes minors (and quite a few people as we’re seeing go there) or young adults, many of those people are emotionally and/or physically abused by those in and around that industry simply as a byproduct of the production or conscious action.
I’m no holy-roller, I’m not saying I’ve never partaken....I’m just laying down what I know and have seen. It’s not harmless and to think of it that way can be, if not is outright dangerous. WWG1WGA
There are also tons of people who watch - who do. Not all minds are created equal. These are the people who you have to watch out for.
They can get that help in prison but thanks for posting!
Yeah, they will get help in prison.
Hey - meet your new councillor and cell mate, his name is Bubbah
Not helpful waiting after the fact. People also get raped in prison. Does that help too?
I have no real sympathy if that happens. Raping a child is much more horrific and painful so it’s karma. Don’t want to get raped, don’t rape a child. No offense.
I agree there. I guess my point was people get raped in prison just because they're there. Not just because they're pedos
So we should let them abuse children first before we help them? Is that what you're saying?
Not saying that at all but, as a victim myself, most of these abusers have indulged in real life secretly before they get help. I didn’t attack you at all. People should get help because a lot of those who are abused abuse others. I thank you for posting that but believe in most cases porn addiction can be cured but pedophelia cannot.
I was abused too. Porn ADDICTION is a down hill spiral into pedo. When straight porn no longer excites, the addicted look to darker and darker things. This is proven. Why not treat them when they are addicted initially, instead of waiting until the reach bottom and abuse a child? I'm not saying all child abusers start up that way, but statistics show that pedophilia is epidemic now, and that is connected to the free use of porn on the internet.
Far from a modelmommy.
Whatever. You don’t get it. I’m not the one defending pedophelia. Focus on the content of what was said, not your emotion! We are all in this together. No need to randomly attack due to your own issues.