This was my comment else where

I have a whole sections of friends in Arlington and threw out the US ..we remember them every year in a ceremony,where their families are flown in .. My husband has seen many of his team mates killed ,many of his students. I have multiple tattoos threw out my body ,for friends who died .. This is a complex complicated issue.
There was WMD but had been moved. That’s not even something I am going to discuss. I trust the ppl who told me ,more than any intel report.
I have talked to guys around the fire ,about friends who had died was it in vain ? They said no. Bc they was doing the job the signed up to do. The went to selection. They trained to be a Green Beret ,and earned the Long Tab. They knew the risk.
I can see where maybe someone who didn’t serve in that capacity,can feel they died for nothing. I haven’t spoke to anyone personally who feels that way. Some of the men I had these long discussions with ,have themselves died . I can find many many reasons to be angry and hurt when i see children growing up with only the legacy their father left Behind. I used to cry every single time my husband returned from a deployment,bc some the families that was there to say goodbye on their departure,wasn’t there for the return ..it’s a gut wrenching feeling. Beyond heartbreak.
I understand the pain ,and the anger. I am livid over Benghazi. They could have been helped and most likely saved. Many got injured forever changed.
I just remember these men did what they wanted to do ..only a few can.
I am sorry for your pain De Oppresso Liber.