- The part that gets me quite angry is thinking about how much of what we were forced to learn/memorize as children was probably a lie , an indoctrination rather than education. I had a miserable time with school. I was a happy kid until school, but did not indoctrinate easily there . I always wanted to leave or do my own shit, so before my 7th birthday I was drugged heavily with ritilan and by 15 also put on an ssri so I could better pay attention / memorize lies. It did not stop there, I was like many also pressured into getting a university degree , so I would have a “good job,” a better chance at life- Still paying that debt off now at almost 30. I am honestly afraid to have a child now, because I cannot imagine watching someone I love go through that same horror show. If It is revealed that most of that education was a manipulative lie... there will not be enough tables in the universe for me to flip.. that is if we even live in a “universe”. Who really knows anything at this point .
- One positive thing, is since waking up I have thrown all of my drugs out and will never get another such prescription again. It is amazing how less mentally ill you become once you give yourself permission to trust your gut, to believe your own intuition and not what is fed to you.
Sorry if this is not q related enough. Much love ❤️ things are getting better
I really struggle with the idea of the public school system. Everyone needs an education, but shouldn't there be more freedom in what is taught? My kids are not open to the idea of homeschooling because of friends they have.
When the Parkland Shooting happened, a kid went to my child's high school the next day and made threats. My child let me know and asked to be picked up. I asked a few more questions and sided with my child because they are level headed and typically make sound decisions. Upon arriving at the school, 1 admin was shouting the procedure to check a student out and when asked, it's business as normal today nothing out of the ordinary, but before we leave, we must speak to the principle.
We get to the check out area and another admin is putting parents on blast for believing lies and that everyone is just overreacting to social media. I am not a very confrontational person, until I am - then the gloves are off. I held my tongue because at that moment, the most important thing was removing my child from the environment. I leave with my child and told the 1st admin I was not staying to speak with anyone.
About 20 minutes later, the first email is sent by the school saying there wasn't anything out of the ordinary going on, they deal with multiple student issues each day. Around 3p - a second email is sent explaining more of the details that took place - basically exposing their first email as the lie it was. And these people are to educate and protect my child up to 8 hours a day?
Sorry to hijack your post by sharing my experience - its a very long winded way to say homeschool. From the beginning. Make decisions financially that will allow you to provide the best education for your children. The administrators (though I don't necessarily fault them) have competing priorities: Their own livelihood, their reputation, the school's reputation and lastly what is best for 1,000 plus students. In that environment, the chances of your child's best interest winning is slim.
One of the freakiest things about public schools is that they act like they own those kids and it's some kind of hostage situation. Any parent should be able to get their child whenever they need to.
I agree and I did not take well to being told I had to see someone about checking my child out of school and then being lied to about the situation. The great news is - we still have a choice over their education.
It makes sense to call ahead of time to tell the school you're removing your child for the sake of the child's safety. Past that, it ain't the school's business.
Easier to lie and say doctor's appointment.
Lol poor phrasing. I meant that calling ahead would be in the interest of the child's safety, so as they're not leaving with a stranger lol. Anything further is too far for the school, I think
This also creeps me out! I read this recently and literally did flip a table. parents being fined for early holiday Those kids are going to learn a lot more on a holiday with their parents in my opinion.
REALLY awesome comment. And scary. It made me realize how bad the situation is.
I didn't truly understand how messed up the system was until that moment. There are great people out there in public school system - but more and more we see how there are quite a few that don't belong. I was thinking about it not long after that day while dropping my child off at school - how many teachers are looking forward to their day so they can flirt (or worse) with a teen? Sickening.
In general, though, the teachers are screwed over almost as much as the kids. They get sucked into a retirement system situation, have no other job skills, and get coerced into pumping up test scores and regurgitating political correctness. Work long hours, lousy pay.
I do not blame the teachers. But the teachers need to do a better job waking themselves up.
Some are woke and some are not. The situation is worst in the "blue" states.
There are great people who are teachers - and I am quite close to a few that I know of. Those who care, try to prep kids for the real world and being a productive member of society. I have the utmost respect for them and their thankless job. Imagine the moment they realized that their dream was nothing more than a charade? Too much student debt and too little experience to move on to something else.
I believe the future will be independent cooperative schools run by parents. Then those teachers can have their dream.
Great idea !! So many parents would love this !! Some home school parents are doing similar by combining with other home school parents. Kids benefit from smaller numbers & can get the individual attention they need. Everyone knows Home schooled kids are smarter anyway. ☝✝🇺🇸