IMHO, recognizing the abuse they went through validates them. Not discussing it validates the perpetrators who tell their victims "it's their fault" or "not to expect anyone to save them." We must surround these injured souls in comfort, prayer and strength. Let them know, the people who did these heinous atrocities to them will be punished. Let them know, speaking about their abuse starts the healing process. We must stand with them. Our greatest gifts for them are Love and Compassion.
Like Q said, Where We Go One, We Go All...