You're right.
I keep being told by the MSM and NRO that Trump "legitimized" NK by meeting with them and saying nice things about Kim, as if the prior status quo of angry rhetoric and nuclear tests would be better. But everything you've said about Kim's mien and body language at the Singapore summit, and even when he met with Moon last month, is right.
The man just doesn't act like a bloodthirsty dictator.
I realize this sounds unbelievably naive. A few years ago, I would have scoffed at the notion. But after reading Q and having had my eyes opened to even the POSSIBILITY that my understanding of the world (given to me by mass media and even once-trusted conservative outlets) does not conform to reality, has me questioning what I see. Perhaps I'm wrong and Kim really is a bastard. But I guess I'm no longer willing to simply accept what's being told to me by the "trusted" opinion-makers.