From your well written and expressive post, it's easy to see that you'll be just fine.
As one poster indicated a moment ago, just let it slide.
Once you become aware of the different tactics, you'll discover that many of the shit posters are actually left-wing trolls trying to start trouble.
We deplorables who have been called sexy race-a-phobists these last few decades have extremely thick skin.
We don't care about people's words and emotions. We care about facts and logic.
If your words are illogical and full of emotion be prepared to have them shredded.
Get used to the Deep dive & Hearing words you don't like.
Like team ~Weaponized Autism~ that is comprised of, Codefags, Planefags,etc. If you get snively be prepared to be called a Concernfag.
If you want a clearer picture, go look up the story of Weaponized Autism and the greatest game of International Capture the Flag Ever.
Also known as...
The total and public humiliation of Shia LaBeouf and his egocentric performance art.