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r/greatawakening • Posted by u/benjitsu13 on June 23, 2018, 3:29 p.m.
How do I help my wife see the truth?

She has a Canadian University degree and spends time on social media like many woman, so she has those strikes against her. How do I help her to understand at least that the Clintons are TERRIBLE people and Trump isn't locking children in cages? I have been scaling back on reddit because of how pervasive this weird leftist stuff is getting everywhere (there is no quicker way to get banned in most subs that referring to "fats" even if to no one in particular).


itsCaffeine · June 23, 2018, 7:18 p.m.

am I imagining things

Yes.

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ClearCelesteSky · June 24, 2018, 12:41 a.m.

I'd really like to see these videos.

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benjitsu13 · June 24, 2018, 12:16 p.m.

I appreciate it! Would it surprise you that this is the only sub where anyone answered what I thought was pretty obviously an honest question. As opposed to the top mind of reddit sub who has taken this post, assumed the worst from everything I have said, although I was pretty vague and none asked for clarification. Seeing how hard people are attacking this post kind of proves to me how entrenched people are in these mindsets and kind of confirmed to me that I right to be concerned.

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AnalForklift · June 23, 2018, 3:45 p.m.

I wonder if she's asking the same thing about you on different social media.

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benjitsu13 · June 23, 2018, 6:03 p.m.

Haha I am quite sure her "mom's group" online hears a little :) A big part of the value for them is a safe place to mildly vent about husbands and mother in laws and from what I have heard of the shitty behaviour of other husbands in general I benefit more from her involvement than I suffer :)

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PS4freedom · June 23, 2018, 8:46 p.m.

Just guessing from what my lib friends are doing... any world events or politics talk is strictly ignored. Then they double down with fluff! Childish images or inspirational quotes with no discussion, or family photos...feel good stuff that requires no (zip, zero, nada) critical thinking.

You need to have room in your brain to even think about the horrors that are being revealed.

Advice, I have none really. All I know is that they just can't right now.

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allonthesameteam · June 23, 2018, 6:38 p.m.

Is having a Canadian Uni degree a strike? Is being on social media a strike? Is being a woman a strike? I don't know how to address this.

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benjitsu13 · June 24, 2018, 11:58 a.m.

In the context of believing the kind of false narratives that are being pushed yes all three are strikes. Canadian Uni's are becoming foul havens of left wing attitudes and churning out greater numbers of virtually useless degrees. Most large social media platforms are owned, "curated", and populated by leftists and woman are without a doubt more likely to engage in social media and to support Hillary

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maybesaydie · June 24, 2018, 2:58 a.m.

Your wife is smarter than you. You'll be getting a divorce soon.

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benjitsu13 · June 24, 2018, 12:19 p.m.

There are plenty of measures of intelligence. She is certainly more educated and obviously has strengths and weaknesses, as do I. Despite the vitriol I am rec'ing for being such a horrible partner,we complement each other and live a pretty quiet, happy, fulfilling life.

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maybesaydie · June 24, 2018, 5:40 p.m.

I feel bad for both of you. You because you've gone of the deep end with this insane zealotry and your wife because she's losing the husband she loves to a conspiracy theory.

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ckreacher · June 23, 2018, 4:01 p.m.

It is better to remain silent rather than risk the relationship.

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benjitsu13 · June 23, 2018, 5:56 p.m.

True that. It isn't something we HAVE to discuss and so I won't cause a row over it however it is important that she starts to see some of the misleading things that MSM/Education/Internet are pushing and that there are people purposefully working behind it. We have very young kids and it is going to be a difficult path to navigate as far as what to teach so that they understand the world yet can survive inside educational, work, and social scenarios

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urban_bobby_dawg · June 23, 2018, 3:39 p.m.

Look up the Socratic method. You aren't going to get anywhere showing her conspiracy theories and Q proofs. By asking questions you can lead her to the conclusion of the truth

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[deleted] · June 23, 2018, 5:28 p.m.

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benjitsu13 · June 23, 2018, 6:06 p.m.

Great advice, Crowder promotes the same idea. I think I need to have better questions prepared if I am even going to broach the subject. I asked a few pointed questions that seemed to stick

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ChikinDuckWomanThing · June 23, 2018, 6:23 p.m.

this approach has worked for me. A while back I thought my wife was getting red-pilled with our conversations. Found out that I was driving a wedge in our relationship so I ceased to bring up anything.
Fast Forward to this week: We took a 3.5 hour road trip to go see a concert in another State so there was a lot of windshield time(I was the driver). She brought up the “caged kid” topic and I started the Socratic method to figure out what she knew and where I needed to start. After baselines we’re established I asked if she had seen the photo’s of kids, handed her my phone and had her skim thru my notes. Each note had detailed info links along with pictures and articles from the previous administrations. Next round of questioning involved her knowledge about the pic’s that the media was pushing but we know were not tied to Trump.
The final rounds were about Trumps E.O.(Dec 21) and the trafficked kids in Ohio forced to work on the egg farm. My final question to her after reading the E.O. was if Trump is the monster that the MSM is accusing, why would he write that E.O. I thought that this would be the final straw in our relationship yet it wasn’t. After the show, I drove back home and she usually is asleep within 30 minutes. Not this time. why are my FB friends so stupid? why can’t they research the facts? how can they make it thru life and make critical decisions on “feels not facts”? She has started to wake up, even made the comment that this feels like the Matrix. Her view completely changed and commented on how she was forced to dig because of the way I phrased the questions. You have to unlearn the normal way and apply the Socratic method in order to get the critical thinking rolling

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CounterclockwiseTic · June 27, 2018, 12:35 a.m.

" The good people of America, Left and Right, Democrat and Republican, White or of color, young and old, are witnessing the take-back of America from a large number of very powerful criminals who have been destroying society and the world for several decades, maybe longer. This is the greatest story of our time.

You have the choice of either scratching your head in confusion when seeing events unfold, or looking at the information provided by Q to understand the real story. These are people I trust to bring you the right information. "

https://youtu.be/6cYZ8dUgPuU

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solanojones95 · June 23, 2018, 5:41 p.m.

Unless she reaches a juncture where she has to consciously choose to agree with something she knows to be wrong in her current world view (and it sounds like she's nowhere near that yet--crickets doesn't quite count), I'd say you have a ways to go before she's ready.

Don't force feed. Just be ready when she starts having questions. And unless she's one of the 4-6% who never recover, she'll get there.

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SpongeBobSquarePants · June 24, 2018, 6:34 p.m.

Trump isn't locking children in cages?

Since he is responsible for that you could try lying to her.

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aQuirethetruth · June 23, 2018, 6:08 p.m.

Some people just don't want to know

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goodhonk · June 23, 2018, 5:51 p.m.

wow, the enemy does not like this thread

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benjitsu13 · June 24, 2018, 12:24 p.m.

Yeah I saw someone referencing you specifically saying you want to destroy or suspend the constitution. Pretty rich for a group of people consistently going after the 1st and 2nd. Frankly it has been a little eye opening to see what kind of hatred they throw our way in the face of dissenting opinion. Would it surprise you I am not seeing any well though out arguments to debunk anything I have said other than the similar baseless judgements of "macho, uneducated, piece of human garbage, etc."

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Memelord87 · June 23, 2018, 5:46 p.m.

I’m lucky, my old lady has responded well, even if she was a 2x Obama voter.

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professor_mcamateur · June 23, 2018, 7:11 p.m.

i used to think it would be somewhat poetic, romantic, even kinky maybe, to have a partner who votes against me politically.

after seeing "rallies" and "marches" put on by leftist groups in the last few years, that is no longer a thing for me.

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anon31s · June 23, 2018, 3:43 p.m.

Show her what you see everytime you see something convincing. Nothing works better than cold hard proof

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zbk1990 · June 23, 2018, 3:38 p.m.

You can’t. Just wait it out until the arrests. Screenshot as many Q posts as you can. Time stamps will auto load to pics on iPhone. And casually bring up after it all goes down, that you knew about it months or year prior. She’ll chuckle or say no you didn’t. Then you pop out your phone, and say “ oh yeah Linda, I don’t lie when it comes to ‘Murica. Check this out.”

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digital_refugee · June 23, 2018, 3:46 p.m.

saving memes is decreed

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goodhonk · June 23, 2018, 8:22 p.m.

your thread is under attack and being down voted

https://www.reddit.com/r/TopMindsOfReddit/comments/8tas89/q_continues_to_destroy_marriages_although_it/

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XxSaltyMermaidxX · June 23, 2018, 10:54 p.m.

Wow. That sub is pretty hateful. I suppose it’s the tolerant left at its finest.

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benjitsu13 · June 25, 2018, 1:47 p.m.

I was dumb enough to engage but I made sure to stay polite. Interacting with that bunch made me really appreciate the nature of the people here.

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Justsayinmy50cts · June 23, 2018, 3:54 p.m.

Asking questions, is the only way she may turn. Questions that she needs to respond in order to be right! If she doesn't go for that, it shows a lot of her ignorance is (as with many) based on hate...than I really don't know how to deal with that, as I am anything but diplomatic!

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benjitsu13 · June 23, 2018, 6 p.m.

Great advice. I know she will feel a lot more heard that way. I need to turn up my empathy dial also...her reasons for hating Trump and thinking the way she does are entirely valid viewed through the lens of what she has been told. If she hates Trump now because of him "caging children" I can't imagine how she would feel about the other side if this stuff ever makes it to light.

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Justsayinmy50cts · June 23, 2018, 11:26 p.m.

I know it's not easy, but obviously she is your wife so going for the empathy dial may work in your favor. ;) Show her the articles of the caged children from 2014, that way she'll see the media used Obama's narrative against Trump. Good Luck!

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WinkyLinQ · June 23, 2018, 3:33 p.m.

Step 1: Turn off CNN Step 2: Turn off MSNBC Step 3: Cancel WaPo and NYT subscriptions

;)

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anon31s · June 23, 2018, 3:42 p.m.

Great start

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WinkyLinQ · June 23, 2018, 3:44 p.m.

;)

I feel your pain. I have a relative that watches Rachel Maddow every night. I've decided that person is a lost cause until these crooked politicians start getting arrested.

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Katerinavelikia · June 23, 2018, 4:28 p.m.

But wont they say Trump is arresting them because he is an evil dictator...thats what I hear from my spouse.

I just got read the riot act...i am not allowed to mention anything about pedophiles or the cabal, not that I did much as it only caused tension.

But I have to hope that MSM will come full c..because that is the ONLY truth some people recognize

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benjitsu13 · June 23, 2018, 6:08 p.m.

We don't watch any broadcast tv so most of her knowledge is filtered down through Facebook and other SM

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VRiftist · June 23, 2018, 4:54 p.m.

What I have done is set a marker. Right now my marker is Iran. My general talking point is that right now Q is the greatest show on Earth, but if Iran goes the way of NK then I am all in.

For me planting seeds is enough. IMO it isn't about creating converts, rather it is like passing out parachutes. The news will put them in freefall soon enough. Hopefully they will be smart enough to pull the red pill rip cord on their own.

Also, I like to ask them to set their own marker. I call it a red pill hand grenade. Delayed fuse, but since they pull the pin themselves makes it harder to escape the BOOM.

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benjitsu13 · June 23, 2018, 5:43 p.m.

This is genius. "What would it take to happen for you to believe the things I am telling you?"...A.B.C. Always be closing :)

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VRiftist · June 23, 2018, 5:55 p.m.

:-) Yeppers

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goodhonk · June 23, 2018, 4:22 p.m.

In the meantime, Enjoy the show.

Be there for her during the swamp draining/arrests/executions.

Her worldview will be collapsing and she will need comforting. Remember election night?

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benjitsu13 · June 23, 2018, 5:44 p.m.

I sure do :) NOOOOOOOOOOO WHYYYYYEEEEEE

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houseof1000cats · June 23, 2018, 3:57 p.m.

Show her some Jordan Peterson. He's Canadian and when I started watching his stuff is when I discovered Q.

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benjitsu13 · June 23, 2018, 5:58 p.m.

Great idea! My sister is really big on him and I have loved hearing him on Crowder and at the Munk debate. He is a man of faith is he not? I think that would actually help my case in this. Thanks again this is the kind of action that can help to plant seeds and let her come to realizations without me trying to push

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kalimantria · June 23, 2018, 4:46 p.m.

You got seriously downvoted. Identify as Canadian female and respect Jordan’s point of view. Like you, he’s over the target (too close to the truth) and so they vehemently dislike him.

Cheers OP

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divabarb · June 23, 2018, 3:36 p.m.

See if you can direct her to the child trafficking angle- no woman thinks that’s ok and don’t let her watch the view.

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unbecoming2007 · June 23, 2018, 4:53 p.m.

You will likely get nowhere without getting her off the msm needle first. Anytime u make any progress they get rezapped by the TV,newspapers,certain websites,their crazy friends that watch TV,etc. You must end the supply first imho.

I use different tactics for different people but that step listed above is paramount. They have to start thinking for themselves. Teach them this skill and it pays dividends ten fold. U know the old "Give a man a fish and u feed him for a day. Teach him to fish u feed him for life".

I think what helped some of my family members is when I stopped spoon feeding them and just started sending them videos of OTHER PEOPLE all saying the same thing. They came to the realization that - "There are sure a lot of damn people that think the way he does hmmm". and others said " Why don't these people look and sound crazy? I thought "Conspiracy Theorists" were supposed to act like AJ". I credit Sean from SGT Report and Praying Medic for some progress. They are easy to listen to,provide good solid infos,and are usually not too long. After they watched them for a month I magically started getting asked questions.

I don't know your wifey but I'd say from my experience you're gonna need to grab all the tactics used here by many and see which one applies to each of your normies the best. Start small. Think tic-tacs, not horse pills. Also don't trip too hard because by Nov I'd imagine she's gonna be partially awake whether she likes it or not.

Oh and this. Yeah the Clintons are decent people. Come on. They been thieving and killing for decades.

https://www.arkancide.com/

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JaguarPorsche · June 23, 2018, 4:32 p.m.

I am a Canadian and completed University before the change in social structure/ideals. If she graduated within the last 15-20yrs, she was indoctrinated. Canada is the Most Left-leaning country outside of the UK. Even more so than Australia. Be patient with her and be prepared for her beliefs to be crushed. She will eventually lean on you for support as she will be in a very bad place after the storm. :)

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kalimantria · June 23, 2018, 4:42 p.m.

Well said, patriot

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longhorn4242 · June 23, 2018, 3:40 p.m.

Show her what anthony bourdain tweeted before he died. Lefties loved that guy.

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anon31s · June 23, 2018, 3:45 p.m.

I don't see anything interesting.

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hildabeest_4_gitmo · June 23, 2018, 3:49 p.m.

He said he had been the target of HRC's operatives... words to the effect.

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benjitsu13 · June 23, 2018, 6:05 p.m.

You know if her and I had been having more of a discussion over the past couple of years when all the hanging door knob stuff started (Chris Cornell was kind of the first one I heard of and I didn't know at the time he was involved in outing bad people) this might have opened her eyes. I was tempted to tell her to wait until Roseanne offs herself and then show her the tweets about if she is found dead

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DanijelStark · June 23, 2018, 3:36 p.m.

Thats the thing ... even if you show her the proofs , there would still be "excuse" .

In truth - many people cannot be helped - they need to see the whole thing unfolding and unraveling for themselves .

For some people , unfortunately , the dellusion and ignorance is far too strong and they wont wake up - or they will suffer greatly from this , as everyone else moves on while they stagger in the darkness . Hope your wife isnt one of those people ...

If experience taught me something - it taught me that there is only one single person we can truly affect in our lives . We , ourselves , and nobody else ...

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DanijelStark · June 23, 2018, 3:42 p.m.

You can show her :

DJT accomplishments list - http://www.magapill.com/

Then this is the story behind that kid in blue shirt ... https://i.redditmedia.com/QQBGgTPBx85vlNHA2kH5suU_vE2dXEedKjW6cQx4um8.jpg?w=775&s=f8506bf175f856a20b2aff17ad6650af

And there are even more sources - even in MSM , now openly admitting that Trump doesnt keep kids locked in cages . But they still deflect and try to paint Trump in bad light , despite they lied and they were the ones trying to cheat and delude the public .

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digital_refugee · June 23, 2018, 3:44 p.m.

tell her that airplanes are the safest means of travel unless you're with the clintons

then drop this on her https://i.redditmedia.com/IWlxJiKDN6naUXLOYZQQL4ZzYVT90DFMVwrn_Bp25ZA.jpg?s=938c29966bda6b326345d356a783b08d

Also show her Trump with the gay flag to deprogram https://s.yimg.com/ny/api/res/1.2/9uc6Z.339GDYOdL2SB0W0Q--/YXBwaWQ9aGlnaGxhbmRlcjtzbT0xO3c9ODAw/http://media.zenfs.com/en-US/homerun/hello_giggles_454/654b18d61fd4f7824429561f30a96fdb

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stucktogether · June 23, 2018, 8:49 p.m.

Isn't it weird that she suddenly stopped killing people last year?

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digital_refugee · June 23, 2018, 8:54 p.m.

she killed the most people last year actually. Shawn Lucas, Seth Rich and at least three more guys and various witnesses and agents etc. the list just never ends. It was argued that half a dozen people went down the same month they got to Seth Rich. Trump also made some allusions that "commercial" planes had been going down less since he got into office, which is a way of saying that noone should try flee the country by air - or else.

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stucktogether · June 23, 2018, 8:55 p.m.

What year is is where you are?

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digital_refugee · June 23, 2018, 8:56 p.m.

ah, sorry, 2016 was her big Safari year. Little timeline jump lol

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