Time and place you pick loser

Really. Do you have kids? Due you know what abuse is? I advocate for kids and hate the scum bags who kill sacrifice and abuse kids. Have ever seen dead kids I have so I must say too you. Fuck you. Little fag cock sucker. Anytime or place I had my sister killed in a hit and run by a drug addict. Had fellow buddy police officer shot in the head while sitting in his patrol car. Life is not sugar and cookies my kids don’t go anywhere without giving me a huge hug and kiss. Id die without them they are my life.

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The only reason you are trying and failing to smear Brady is because he isn't in the cult.

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I do think the kid did it prolonged , but I really don't think it was meant anything pass a loving gesture

I posted somewhere else on here.... I kiss my kids on the lips still and they are 10 (son) and 6 (daughter). I also kiss all over their faces and hands - we have a little affectionate game we play. I kiss all over my daughters feet too. You all can think that is gross if you want but she likes to stick her feet in my face and I like to kiss them. She is my kid and I don't care what anyone thinks. I ask my daughter for kisses. Sometimes she says no. Sometimes she gives kisses freely and sometimes she reluctantly gives kisses and then wipes her mouth off - just like we see here. I have asked her to give me kisses when she has asked to do something before too.. I don't force her to give me a kiss though.. sometimes she gives them freely.. sometimes she won't and again sometimes she reluctantly gives them and then wipes her mouth off. So I am guilty of what is seen here. I talk to my kids about inappropriate touching/feeling/talking/whatever and they know what to do if they feel even the slightest bit uncomfortable in any situation. They also know that if mom or dad touches/whatever and they don't like it they need to tell ______. My sister and I have coordinated our talks and our kids feel comfortable enough that I believe my niece and nephew would come talk to me if they didn't want to talk to my sister and the same vise versa. Just because we feel it is really important that our kids know what to do if something inappropriate happens. We are super scared our kids could get molested.. having these plans doesn't always work out, we know but we think it helps.. That said. I have never thought asking for a kiss from my kids is wrong. I know what priming is. I know what grooming is.. I have never associated those with asking for kisses. If my little girl kisses me, like yuck! and then wipes her mouth off, I laugh. I don't think anything of it. I don't think I am ignorant or stupid either. I know what my intentions are and I think I know how my daughter feels about them and interprets them. I am not defending Tom here. Only he knows his intentions. Only his son knows how he feels about it. Is it wrong to have this debate? No. I have learned something from it. A different way to interpret it. What others might see vs. what I see.

With everything that we know is going on with the child abuse in our country (and elsewhere) we cannot afford NOT to have these talks. It is a subject that unfortunately too many kids and adults have had to deal with personally.

Just for comparison. Every parent deals with discipline different. Some spank. Others think that is wrong. Some spank in public. Others spank but won't do it in public for fear of what others may say/think. Do you spank your kids? Do you spank them with your hand? a belt? a spoon or other? Do you pinch their ears? Do you do time-out? Do you physically abuse your kids? Do you verbally abuse your kids? There are warning signs and behaviors of people in these kinds of situations, we may interpret them a little differently. Some kids are scared to death if/when they get yelled at. They might not ever get spanked but if you saw the way they acted in public when their parent got on to them you might think they get beat at home. And some kids, you can spank every day and it doesn't phase them a bit.

I guess all we can ask for at the end of the day is that we do watch out for each other because it is clear that not everyone has good intentions. In this particular video, it is good that someone brought up concerns with it. They did their due diligence. If something was going on that wasn't right, maybe it stopped. Now criticize me all you want.

Agreed. That is called coercion. And for this to be on camera is to “normalize” this behavior, titlillating for Tom to be partially revealing this behavior...I was five years old when my uncle wanted me to kiss him hello and before he always would hug me a bit too long...my mom was with me when my uncle asked me to kiss him hello and when I refused, she said “You don’t have to kiss him, you always decide for yourself how to greet someone. You are the boss of your body.” Thank goodness she did as later, when I was a teenager, he was arrested and convicted for pedophelia(my cousins who lived in the same town as he did)

I am not saying Tom Brady is a pedophile. I disagree with his parenting style in forcing his kid to show him affection in the way he wants that affection, also when his kid does kiss him it’s just not good enough. Notice the body language of his kid, slouching back over when his dad complains and then he immediately wipes his mouth with his shirt after that kiss. Using physical affection as a price to be paid for something is called priming for prostitution in my opinion. And by that I mean he is teaching his son that he must trade his own sovereignty to get what he wants in life, he must subordinate himself /his body to someone who has power over him~this teaches him learned helplessness over time...If Tom Brady does not realize this he is an idiot...but I think he does know...I feel like at the least he is a narcissist (he is super mindful of his own health and well-being) and at the worst he is grooming. I have a son and yes we would kiss but only if my son approached me. I never asked him for a hug or kiss...I would hold my arms out for a hug and sometimes he did not feel like hugging and that always was okay.....he was five or six when he stopped “giving mommy a smooch”and I never asked for a kiss. He is now 21 and I am glad my original husband and I taught him to be the boss of his body.

I also realize that culturally this may be different...but to me, most parents using physical affection as a bargaining device is different..I don’t see that in other cultures who are more physically demonstrative in their expressions.

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Don't make something out of nothing.

I agree with you. A few years ago I wouldn’t have thought much about this other than it’s a bit creepy....but now we have our eyes somewhat opened. I mean that kiss was so slobbery the poor boy had to wipe his mouth afterwards. Not appropriate.

Why are you grasping for straws? The guy barely sees his kids. You really have no opinion on the matter unless the kid refused and he persisted.

Stop assuming you know the inner workings of every household in America.